家长教师会面日

盼望了许久的家长教师会面日总算来临了. 6月8日,懒懒的起床,然后带着大宝和小宝浩浩荡荡的到光华小学去. 到达学校,大约 10am, 还好, 不是很多人. 等了大约十五分钟, 终于到我们了.
一坐下来, 看到大宝的全级排名,我差点从椅子上跌下来.天啊, 就只因为数学的粗心,大宝竟然排名在千里之外. 现在, 老工终于认同我的想法, 一分也不能轻易失去.

之前, 我因大宝的粗心,白白浪费了几分而碎碎念,老工还教训了我,讲我为什么那么看不开,区区的三分罢了嘛,何必把孩子给教训一顿,现在,他可了解我的用心良苦了.哈哈!

那么,至于大宝呢,可爱天真活泼又天真无邪的他竟然以为排名越大是越好,我可被他气得不知如何是好,但,回头想,既然是个无法改变的事实,那么就用小孩子的看法来解释给大宝听. 他是懂非懂的告诉我, 他下学期要和会考得更好, 听了,我当然开心. 但, 内心深处在流泪, 我心疼孩子那么小,就得面对分数的纠纷. 为什么,我国的教育制度那么古板,外国的教育根本不在乎小孩子考试成绩, 它们在乎的是孩子们的教育水准,哎,没办法,谁叫我没本事让孩子上国际学校,认命吧,

老师也很奇怪为什么大宝数学考得那么差, 我也只好无言相对的看着老师. 老师啊,我内心在滴血,你按到了我最伤的伤口,哈哈! 基本上,老师对大宝蛮好,没什么投诉,不懂是老师讲得太累了,还是我的大宝很乖?? 我想,该是后者啦, 让自己开心一点,不行吗? 老师有在叮咛大宝要好好写字, 不要在画符. 还有,老师问我大宝最近还有没闹情趣, 老师竟然还记得大宝在学校闹情绪,好羞哦. 幸好,大宝一渡过考试恐惧感,没闹情绪了....

拿了成绩,大伙儿再次浩浩荡荡去吃早+中餐.

宝贝,记得努力做好每一天喔!妈咪,爹地支持你!!!

成绩放棒了!!

考试完了, 接下来就是另一个跟刺激的时刻...成绩放棒了!!!!

儿子只把考卷带回, 还没有家长老师会面日,所以,我还不晓得儿子在学校有多乖,多顽皮.儿子考试成绩还不错,但是,数学就倒,太太粗心. 问他有什么感想,他竟然说 NO FEEL.气死我了. 如果,他不会, 我还没那么气, 但是, 他是粗心....希望,在 接下来的考试里,他会较细心.

至于,女儿,家长老师会面日在5/21,但,出呼预料,她竟然考出预料不到超好的成绩!好棒!!!!! 但是, 有被老师投诉,说她在班上有时会发白日梦,有时不回答老师,有时就太多话.....希望女儿会慢慢的变乖,不要那么调皮,

我是正版马来西亚学生

我在厨房里忙东忙西, 洗完这这, 就洗那,,,,像只脱了线的风争飞来飞去.

当我在拿着烧水时,发现女儿竟然在没声之下,站在我身后. 第一反应就是骂她, 因为, 我常告诉她别站在我身后, 尤其在厨房.  猜猜看她怎样回答我....

她说, "妈咪, 妳marah 我, 我会很 sad 的," 然后呢, 她竟然拼出, s..a...d, sad. 哇, 我真的没想到这女儿会用三个语言構建句子. 

所以嘛...你说, 我是不是该表扬她, 懂得善用所学的语言, 哈哈!

Mummy, it's time to let go!

I have been accompanying my boy packing his school bag every night after homework and revision. Our usual activity is, he will gathered all the books for next day according to the time table, then i will do a cross check by calling out each subjects, and he will put all those books into his school bag. Both of us enjoy this "YOU and ME" time though.

After CNY break, on Tuesday night, when i wanted to repeat the same routine with him, he told me that he had pack his school bag and assured me that i don't have to check for him. Suddenly, i feel so lost as i am no longer needed in part of his schooling life. However, to make him feel confident on himself, i praised him and reminded him to make sure he didn't miss out anything that needed for the next day.

But.......i still don't feel comfortable to let him do it all by himself, not that i don't have confident on him, but to me, he is still too young to handle himself well. LOL! So, either at night after he went upstairs or early in the morning when he is still in his dreamland, i will check his school bag again, to make sure he doesn't miss out anything.

守得云开见月明

写了又檫, 檫了又写,忙了这么久和茫了这么久,终于有点头绪,总算守得云开见月明,看见成就. 不然的话就是陪了夫人又折兵.

大宝贝的字体总算大有进步. 竟然还获得老师的欣赏,得了A. 

宝贝, 好棒喔!! 继续努力!

骂你,罚你,情非得已....I feel so guilty

今天, 不懂什么原因, 蒋大弟竟然在大庭广众下流泪.

As usual, Kelvin attending his Sunday Taekwondo class, and as usual, he enjoyed himself very much. Towards the end of the class, the instructors requested all of them to put on their sparring gear, YEAH, time for sparring. After one round of sparring with one of his friend, he rested at the side, talking happily with others.

快乐的世间过得很快, after a while, my boy being asked to spar with another boy who has higher belt than him, and out of our expectation, my boy burst into tears. The instructor did try to make him stop crying, but his tears seems like a burst pipe, keep coming out. So, he being asked to stand aside. And after a while, the instructor tried to request him for another round of sparring, and again, his tears pipe burst again. Sigh. I was so mad as he refused to tell out what is the reason.

When we got home, i asked him again and he can't really give me a good reason why he cry, he told me he feel very hot with the sparring gear. Well, i don't think this is the real reason. So, as the result, he being prohibited from playing tablets and watching TV for a week as a punishment.

When i sit down and think over again and again, i feel so guilty.I shouldn't push him so much, should let him grow at his own pace. But i don't want my boy grow up in a sissy way, i want him to be able to express himself out well so that he can find his own way out. 毕竟, 逃避现实不是一个好办法嘛. Hopefully my boy can overcome his own fear soon.