可爱又可恶的哥妹俩

君子报仇千年不晚， 这可是对的。
妹妹一直喜欢作弄哥哥，然后哥哥一直以来都是忍气吞声。。。但是，人总是有极限的嘛。就在有一晚，哥哥终于决定报复。

哥哥很奸诈的从bathroom 走出来，很“友善”的请妹妹刷牙去，还告知妹妹他帮了妹妹准备牙刷，牙膏。妹妹对这善良的哥哥从没怀疑过。
一会儿，妹妹从bathroom 跑出来，问，为什么牙膏那么辣？？？！！！

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。
可恶的哥哥笑个不停，很神气的说，“是我将妈咪的牙膏放在你牙刷上，谁叫你常常弄我！！”

那可怜的妹妹，听了哥哥那么讲，也没反驳。头低低的走进 bathroom 去。我和老公俩完全没介入他们的纠纷，我们在暗暗地笑。他们弄两真的是可爱又可恶的哥妹俩！

The contradictory me

My boy very sticky to me, and sometimes, i really wish that i am tough enough to turn him down and leave him alone to train him to be more independent.

For unknown reason, he cried when we drop him to daycare, and this lasted for almost 1 month until i almost wanna seek for child psychiatrist's help. And thank goodness, he decided to end the crying all by himself. And now, he is back to his happy go lucky behavior.

Yesterday was his school's sport day and this is his first time attending sport day. He being selected by his teacher to represent the class to participate in the game. When he told me about this, i am as excited as him, and in fact, i am more excited than him, LOL!  I applied leave few days before the event.

On Monday, Kelvin come back and tell me the schedule for the next day, and he said in fact, i an just drop him at USM Stadium and pick him up around 11:30am. In fact, he doesn't expect me to be there to see him participating the game, When i heard of his plan, suddenly i had a mixed feeling, happy and sad. Happy that my boy is now feeling comfortable to be with his friends and school teachers; happy that my boy is slowly getting more independent; sad that my boy is growing up; sad that my boy soon will no longer need me to protect him.

At the end, i told him that i would like to be there to see his participating in the game, and also i already promised aunty Doreen that i will be there, so i need to keep my promise to be there on his sport day. Delightedly he said he is happy that i can be there. Actually, not only me, daddy and also mei mei also went to USM stadium to give him our morale support.

So, should i feel happy or sad when i see my boy getting more independent??? 

Happy birthday mummy

Again, this year mummy's birthday fall on weekday and somemore it's Wednesday whereby it's a busy day for daddy and me. Daddy will need to attend this usual weekly conference call and for us, we need to stay home waiting for weekly cleaner to clean our house. So, quickly, we had a simple dinner in Queensbay mall.

When we reached home, both of you busy searching high and low in the entire house, looking for whatever things that you guys can put in the box and present to me as present. LOL! After a while you guys finally presented me with a box of toys and also some book as my birthday present.

Both of you are so sweet, love u love u :)

Who said birthday present must be expensive and tangible? The love from the kids are priceless!!!

Battle with Stomach Flu ~ It's almost coming to the end

After fighting with stomach flu for close to 1 week, to be exact, 6 days, it's finally almost coming to the end. Yesterday the whole day, there isn't any vomit or diarrhea reported by the school teacher, and also no vomit or diarrhea at home. But yet, i still dare not say it's completely ok, as i still prefer to put you under observation. In fact, you stated to have back your regular intake of milk powder at school. You has been asking for milk in the past few days, and we always give you the standard answer, "No, you can only drink soya bean milk"

As soon as you back from school, you asked for vitagen. We has been saying big NO NO to you for the past few days when you are fighting with stomach flu. And finally, on last night, we let you enjoy it.

After a while, you requested for fruit. You must be missing all your favorite fruits so much.
K: mummy, can i have fruit?
M: **hesitate for a while** Yes, sure.
K: Then, can i eat strawberry?
M: ** oops** oh, sweetie, nope, u can't take strawberry yet
K: mummy, what about orange, i see there is so many orange in the fridge.
M: oh, sweetie, u can't eat orange either. What about apple, u can take apple.
K: ok, anything also can. ** since your two requests being rejected, so you just agree with what i suggested**

So happily you agree to go with apple.

And it's not the end of the story yet, by 10pm, you said that you are hungry. So, what to do?? Since daddy and keke also feeling hungry, so we went out for light supper at the koay teow thng shop outside of our house. After food, i asked you to sleep and your respond is "sleep without milk?" My gosh, you just had your bee hoon soup, and you still need milk. LOL! Obviously, your are on the way of recovering and claiming back all your appetite. In order not to disappoint you, i make a small cup of milk for you and happily you went to bed after the milk.

Stomach flu, Day #3

Last night was a good night for all of us, no fuss from you when we wake you up 2 times for medicine. And this morning you wake up around 7:30am while all of us still in our sweet dream. Thought everything is ok, however, you throw out again while we are out for breakfast. Sigh...poor girl. Again, you told us that you are hungry and want to eat wan tan mee. Oh, a big NO NO, and mummy tried to persuade you to go for porridge. Luckily you are such a good girl, you agree to have porridge but, you told me that i MUST buy you wan tan mee when you fully recover.

Breakfast settled. Then we went to QBM after breakfast as keke is having his weekly Taekwondo class there. Another headache, where to go for lunch after keke's class?? Think think think...where can we have porridge...think think think..tadaaaaa, the nearby 上海鼎 restaurant. You enjoy the porridge very much and keke ordered honey lemon and you insisted that you want to have few sip. At first, we dont allow you to have, but you kept insist. So at last, i let you try some and deep in my heart keep pray that you wont have stomach pain. True enough, while daddy paying the bill, you told me that you have stomach upset. Luckily our house is nearby and as soon as we reached home, you rushed to toilet to release yourself.

And tonight, where to go for dinner? Both you and keke said want to go back to De Happy seafood restaurant for teochew porridge. Hope there will be no more vomit from you after tonight.

Unwelcome guest - Stomach flu. Day #1 and #2

While picking up keke at the school on Friday, i received a call from your kindy teacher saying that you had sudden fever. I was shocked hearing that as in the morning when i dropped you to school, you seems ok.Thus, when she asked whether can she give you a dose of fever medicine or not, i told teacher, "nope, it's ok, i will pick her up shortly" Deep in my heart, i hope that you are not having stomach flu, but my instinct told me that it's high chance that you are attacked by stomach flu.

According to school teacher, you throw out twice in the school, first time is after afternoon nap and second time is before dinner. Since you are not havving good appetitie after that, so your dinner is just 2 pieces of biscuit. You seems a bit not so active when i picked you up, i guess probably you feel tired after vomit.

You didn't take anything while we went out for dinner, you only drink one glass of barley and awhile later you complained that stomach not feeling well. Quickly, we went home, but instead of poo, you vomited out the barley that you had during dinner. After a while, you asked for biscuit, and with heavy heart, we have to give you since you are not having any food since 3pm and you in fact vomited 3 times, your stomach must be very empty. Luckily no vomit after that.

Thought that everything is over as you asked for pan mee as lunch on Saturday. however, on our way to QBM for movie, you vomited in the car. Sigh. Means, it's not over though, there is still some toxic in your stomach that need to clear out. Again, after vomit, you said you are ok. So, we still proceed for our movie plan.

Everything seems ok until 5:20pm. On our way out to drop keke for his swimming class , you vomited in the car. We turned back home and clean you up as well as cleaning the car. Thought everything is over, but again, i am wrong. After a while, you throut out again in the car, but this time i am well prepared, i quickly gave you a plastic bag and guess what...i saw some yellowish fluid coming out from your mouth, and without second doubt, we bring you to see doctor. As Saturday is off day for Adventist hospital, so we need to go to Emergency Room and luckily Dr Khaw already there treating other patients thus we just need to wait for a while for our turn.

When Dr Khaw checked at you, and as soon as he heard mummy saying there is yellowish fluid out from your mouth, he said that fluid coming from gallbladder. Oh no....meaning the infection is very very bad. As both doctor and us do not wish to go for admission, so we decided to have the treatment at home. However, doctor recommended that you need to have one injection to stop the vomit. As a result, we have many types of medicine for you:-

• Injection to stop the vomit
• Motilium
• Probiotic
• Unasyn antibiotic
• Paracetamol
• ORS

 Gosh, all of us has concern, how to let you take so many medicine at once, surely you will throw out all the medicine. Thus, the recommendation is, give you the medicine separately with the interval of 30 minutes. And the only food that you can take during this period is white bread and porridge. After the painful injection, you making noise saying you are hungry, which is good sign as you didn't ask for food almost 2 days. Suddenly, i am out of idea where to eat and after a while, this place finally come to my mind, De Happy seafood restaurant as they serve teochew porridge.
Wow, you have a real good appetite, you ate 1.5 bowls of PLAIN porridge. Daddy and mummy a bit hesitate to let you eat so much, but seeing you eating the plain porridge happily, so we keep pray that no vomit after that. Phew....everything ok, no vomit after the porridge.

Before we call off the night, mummy told you that we will be waking you up middle of the night for fever medicine. Need to pre-alert you so that you wont be cranky at middle of the night while we wake you up.

骂孩子后的心酸反思........

好讨厌自己那无法放开,放松的态度.


孩子们竟然偷偷的繼承了我一些不好的基因:-没有坚持心 & 粗心
辛好,他们也同时偷偷的繼承了老公良好的基因:-好脾气,健忘

我的脾气不是很好,也是个很没有耐心的人,深受其害的多是我老公.接下来就是两个孩子.哈哈!
虽然,我常常讲,别 给孩子压力,让他们自由发挥,但是, 活在这现实的社会里, 有是我们会搞得自己很不理智. 常常告诉自己, 教育好自己的孩子,不要想着他/她以后会是什么家, 毕竟行行出状元嘛. 太过逼孩子们去帮自己完成自己无法达到的梦想, 对孩子们是很不公 平. 但是,自己就是放不下, 一直深怕孩子功课追不上..

一向来, 我也知道他字体不端, 但不至于很难看到无法读. 但是, 现在国民型华小老师很在意同学们的字体. 第一次与他级任老师见面,第一个评论就是字体不端, 我还很礼貌的回答老师, 叫老师多多帮忙纠正  我猜, 老师内心深处一定痛骂我. 晚上回来,我骂了他一顿,他低着头.
 
昨晚, 我又因为儿子字体不端而痛骂他一场. 他没哭,眼泪一直在眼里打滚,只是俩只眼睛一直看着我. 已不是第一次了, 每次都警告他,若从犯, 我会狠狠的处罚他. 但, 每次都没.

每次,骂完后,深夜,,孩子睡了,我感觉我的孩子真可怜,不懂刚刚我那么骂他, 他心里会很难受吗?我心里很难受,很难受. 有时, 我会伤心的落泪, 很懊悔, 为什么我要那么骂他. 毕竟, 他还小, 当我还是他那年龄时, 我还在迷迷糊糊的学着ABC. 有时, 我会在孩子们熟睡时在他们那可爱的小脸,亲一亲,何必在事情发生了才懊悔, 为什么不学会控制自己.? 为什么还总是抱怨孩子记不住家长和老 师的话呢? 为什么? 为什么? 为什么?

辛好,孩子们还蛮健忘, 睡醒就忘了刚被我痛骂. 几天后, 老毛病又来了. 哪我呢, 也是老毛病重犯,骂骂骂.  但,我坚持,只骂, 不打. 要打, 我也是用手打. 若,忍无可忍, 我就用手打桌子,练个铁沙掌…. 哈哈!

有时, 我在想,孩子们去上学,会不会像我们去上班那样有压力? 我们是否应该放下身段,站在他们的立场上想?其实孩子们想法很单纯,要的也不多,不像我们大人那么复杂. 为什么我不简简单单的教育他们? 无论我们怎样对待他们,他们总可以以一颗最纯净的心来对待我们, 孩子们,你们是上帝送给我的最佳礼物!!!!孩子们,希望你们可以体会到妈咪的用心良苦. 别怪我哦!

我是正版马来西亚学生

我在厨房里忙东忙西, 洗完这这, 就洗那,,,,像只脱了线的风争飞来飞去.

当我在拿着烧水时,发现女儿竟然在没声之下,站在我身后. 第一反应就是骂她, 因为, 我常告诉她别站在我身后, 尤其在厨房.  猜猜看她怎样回答我....

她说, "妈咪, 妳marah 我, 我会很 sad 的," 然后呢, 她竟然拼出, s..a...d, sad. 哇, 我真的没想到这女儿会用三个语言構建句子. 

所以嘛...你说, 我是不是该表扬她, 懂得善用所学的语言, 哈哈!

可爱的女儿

  女儿不耍脾气时是蛮可爱的.

最近, 不懂从哪里学来, 一直叫我教她如何一眼开, 一眼眨, 起初,她无法做到, 但这几天, 她竟然可以掌握到这技巧.

还有, 当她看到我穿比较有色彩的裙子, 她就会要求我, 不穿了,别丢,留给她以后穿. 好几次, 我说, 女儿, 若妳以后穿上妈咪现在穿的裙子, 肯定会被朋友笑. 她竟然理直气壮的说, "不会,朋友不会笑我的". 哈哈!咱们就看妳以后敢不敢穿妈咪留给妳的裙子.

有时, 她还会穿我的高跟鞋在家里走来走去,好怕她拌倒.
带她去买鞋,更头疼,她总要找高跟鞋,不然的话就是颜色奇奇怪怪, 很难配搭衣服那种. 我得费很长时间说服她, 但蛮好玩的.

买衣呢...就不要那种保守的, 衣领高高的- 不要; 袖子长长的- 不要; 颜色暗淡的- 不要.

吃东西呢, 不能一下子避她吃太多,不然的话, 待会儿, 我就有得受, 她会连本带利的呼虏哗啦的吐出来. 哎,我又没空了.

读书, 哇...好挑战, 她不喜欢. 教了一小时,骂了半小时, 待会儿,她可以将所学的忘了一干二净. 超棒! 我得安慰自己,无所谓, 给她时间, 行行出状元嘛,


但, 还是很感谢上帝给了我这宝贝女儿. 妈咪爱妳.

当个称职的妈妈不容易

我一向来都认为当个称职的妈妈不容易, 真的,是不容易. 尤其是当你得工作和家庭兼职时,简直就希望你有超能力,  可以一发个简单的命令, 所有的东西都可以在你控制之下完成任务. 想得美, 世上哪有不劳而获的东西, 若有的话, 你我他就不必工作得那么辛苦.

但是,有些妈妈, 她们却能工作和家庭兼职, 把家人安抚得很妥当. 好羡慕.

上星期,简直是在考验我的能力,老板不停的要这要那, ,  一个容易的price proposal 竟然要我重做,再重做. 改变的不是我的建议 , 要改的竟然是那不起眼的 power point formatting.  天啊......然后,呒老板竟然还批评我的建议书, 讲我做得好烂...

可是, 有料的人,就是有料嘛...当我把建议书呈上与 Brand 讨论时, 既然我的大家都同意, 还说合理....哈哈! 老板很不心甘情愿的在大伙前赞我! 好假!

希望明天会更好!!

Half day outing with cousin

The kids cousin come from far far away from Johor and they usually visit us once a year during the year end school holiday. Thank goodness that even though they only seeing each other once a year, however, they tend to get closer year by year.  However, for this time, we get one small complain from Kelvin, he said " sigh, why all my cousins are girl, no boy can play ball with me?" And second thought, in fact, he is absolutely right, LOL! He is the only boy in our family all his cousins are girl, so most of the time, he doesn't able to kick ball wildly with all the cousins.

We had our lunch at Penang Swimming Club's The Captain's  restaurant. The kids had their first round of badminton game while waiting for food to be served. It's sort of a quick lunch because the kids can't wait to play badminton and sand !!! However, we still able to make the kids to have their lunch and dessert before they headed to badminton court for second round of game. Weather is so promising and we managed to put our feet in the sand and snap few pictures before rain come.

We call the day off and all kids are so exhausted and semi-dozed off on our way home.

Our ESCAPE-ing day

No no no, we are not escaping to anywhere, but we are heading to the Escape theme park at Teluk Bahang. It's a new place for Penangnites as well as visitors to Penang.This park was officially opened in Nov, and after hearing good feedback from friends, we decided to give a try and of course, to bring the 2 kids along. We actually supposed to visit the park a week ago, however, due to some myself and the kids not feeling well, so we postponed the plane to a week later, With this, myself and hub do received lots of "complain" from the kids, LOL! So on the night before, we told the kids that we will be leaving to the park quite early and very cooperatively, they went to bed and dozed off fairly quick.

We woke up a little bit earlier than our usual weekday schedule, both me and hubb quickly get ourselves ready before we wake the two kids up. We headed to the coffee shop at Island Glades for breakfast before the long journey to Teluk Bahang.

We reached the park around 9:45am, and there's lots of car at the parking lot. As we walked nearer to the park, we can heard the cheering sound coming from the park. To our surprise, today, our Penang Chief Minister Lim Guan Eng will be there too for his birthday celebration as well as opening ceremony of the Escape theme park. Entrance ticket is not cheap though, kids who over 4 years old need to pay entrance ticket regardless their height, and cash is not being used in the theme park, thus, we need to get a so called "park card" whereby we can load an amount of money into the card and used it for meal and games. Some games, such as Discovery Dig, tattoo/face painting/ craft at learning house.

As soon as we stepped into the park. we were amazed by the games called "Monkey Business". It's game where  the player get to climb like a pro at various level (total of 3 levels) and balancing them-self on the rope. We do not let Kelvin try on this as he is still not ready for this tough challenge yet.

 

Zoom Bug

Right beside the Monkey business games, there's a warm up games for young kids, "zoom bug". Kaitlyn only ride for less than half of the ring and she gave up, obviously, she is till not in the mood yet. As for Kelvin, he rode for more than 2 rounds, LOL! 

As we were walking towards the tubby race area, we passed by "dig discovery" counter. This is one of the educational section for the kids as well as adult whereby it takes you back to the early days of Malaysia’s mining history. At here, the kids will get to find gems and ‘gold’ hidden in sand, soil and streams. 

After this, we proceeded for the first fun family game, "tubby racer" whereby the participants need to pull the tubby tube to almost a distance of 2.5 storey height, then slide down from there. The pulling up journey is tiring as we need to walk up the small and narrow up ramp tiny alley and furthermore, we need to walk up with the 2 kids as well. Luckily, no complain from both of them, phew! And finally, we reached the top, i slide down with Kaitlyn, meanwhile Kelvin slides down with daddy. At first, hubb a bit worry and refuse to slide down with Kelvin, and for me, i love all these games, so after i double triple confirm with Kaitlyn and she said she is ok, in the count of 1,2,3, both of us slides down happily., Along the way, i kept asking her to close her eyes, checking at her whether she's afraid or not, to my surprise, she's not afraid at all, and she even asked for another round, LOL! At last, i bet hubb can't turn down Kelvin's request, he slided down with Kelvin too.

 After Tubby race, we headed to the next area which is something like the mini version of Monkey business for starter. At first, i was so worry that Kaitlyn will not complete the whole adventure, however, looks like my worry is wasted. She completed the whole adventure without any help from us nor Kelvin. As for Kelvin, he just do it all by himself too, i think it's fairly easy and less challenging for him though :) At the end of the adventure, the kid get to slide down on their own.

Our next stop is  the mini rock climbing area before we headed to "Go Ape". Go ape is the activity whereby the adult and kid can climb on tree. Of course, they have smaller tree for kid and bigger tree for adult. Kaitlyn dare not climb up further after 1 attempt, meanwhile Kelvin tried few attempts before he give up.

After Go Ape, we headed to Foxy Burrow, and this game is strictly for kids under 12 years old, no parents is allowed to tag along in the cave. However, no worry, there is CCTV outside for parents and the park people to observe the kids movement. It's a caving adventure, so kids need to climb over rocks, squeeze through gaps and duck under obstacles to complete this caving adventure!And the kid need to follow the instruction clearly else they will kept heading to dead end in the cave. In the event of exhausted or give up, the kid will need to stand in front of the CCTV, crossed their hand on their chest, and the person in charge will rescue them.

Now, the most exciting games time, Gecko tower. The park is very considerate whereby they do have one section for kids or beginners. Since i am not so keen with this climbing activity, so by default, daddy need to accompany Kelvin for this games.

We spend 3 hours in the park and we decided to call the day off. Before we leave the park, the kids requested to have another round of zoom bug. And last but not least, they get to snap their pic outside of the park before we officially say bye bye to the park. We will re-visit the park again in next time.

Sweet talk by the kids

Monday night, since both kids still so energetic and i need to tidy up the room, so as usual, i take the opportunity to chat with both kids.

Kaitlyn was playing with her doll and pretending that she is having a shopping spree with the doll.

K: mummy, bye bye, i am going out with baby
M: where are u going with the baby?
K: we are going to Singapore for shopping
M: why not u leave baby in Penang with mummy and u go shopping
K: no mummy, we go Singapore together!
M: **wah, make me so happy!!** hmm, so u will u leave baby in hotel with me and u go shopping?
K: no mummy, we go shopping together with baby
M: ar, then how u gonna shop with baby?
K: we can put baby in stroller
M: hmm...ok, ok **make me so happy though**

Then, i turn to Kelvin

M: boy, next time after you get married, will u still stay with daddy and mummy?
K:*without any second thought* yes, of course i will still stay with you and daddy!!
M:*so i raise the question up another level* boy, if next time, if you have a girlfriend and mummy don't like her, then how?
K:*uh huh, now, he paused for a while* mummy, why u don't like my girlfriend?
M: I don't know why, i am just giving you an example, what if i don't like her?
K:*a while later, only answer me* then, i don't want my girlfriend.
M:*hahahahaha...sure or not, liusten first huh!* oh, like that huh!
K: after i get married, i will buy a big house , bring my girlfriend (he still doesn't really know that after married, the girlfriend should be call wife) back and we stay together
M: ok ok, good boy

Before he proceed further, i call the night off and fast fast ask both of them to keep their books and sleep. Because i worry that they may ask me too many questions and i am unable to answer them, LOL!

As for me, i went to sleep in the smile on my face after getting sweet talk from both kids. Sweeter than having a bowl of dessert.

Time to mess up the kitchen

Yesterday was a bad day for people at Bandar Acheh in Indonesia because earthquake strike their area. And since there's so many people kept sending message saying not to go anywhere besides staying home, so after dinner, we headed back home.

Since the night still young, and both of you still very energetic, and i suddenly thought of making milo biscuit cake, so i told both of you to get ready with your apron and i have a secret assignment for both of you. In no time, both of you get ready with your apron and wait for me instruction.

As i don't have a rolling pin, so i gave each of them a water tumble to roll the biscuit. Each of them get 10 pcs of biscuit from me, 1 zip lock bag as well as 1 water tumble. I requested them to put the biscuit one by one into the zip lock back and roll it with the water tumble. See, the 2 little helper so focused working on their assigned task.

While they are working on their part, i am busy at the kitchen heating up the butter, mixing the milo and condensed milk. After a while, here's the final result from them. Both happily pose for daddy.

Now, it's my turn to work. I add the smashed biscuit into the mixture of butter, milo and condensed milk, stir for a while, cool it down, then pour it into a container to be refrigerated. As of this morning, the cake still a bit soft, as it's suppose to be harder a bit. Maybe my fridge is not cold enough?? LOL!

If you like to try this on your own, you may find the recipe from Nigella's site. I found it easy for lazy people like me as it doesn't need any baking, so less washing of equipment needed.

I need to keep this up...

This morning when i get my girl ready to work, suddenly realized that the dress she used to wear last year is getting shorter. And only i realized that she actually grow up, not a small girl anymore. Shame on me that i don't have lots of write up on her growing progress.....

It time for me to start writing and keep my memories in word....

My best mother's day gift

Today,in the Mother's Day party, one of the event is, my son and his classmates present a Chinese poem to all mummies :-
（唐‧ 孟郊‧《遊子吟》）
慈母手中线， 游子身上衣。 临行密密缝， 意恐迟迟归。谁言寸草心， 报得三春晖

Even though my boy can't pronounce it perfectly, but i feel so proud of him. I never expect he can remember the whole thing. Kelvin, BRAVO!! Mummy so proud of you!

But....i am not a good mummy as i can't sew well.
so the modern version should be...
慈母手中"钱"，游子身上衣。临行密密"买"，意恐迟迟归。谁言寸草心， 报得三春晖

He is such a sweet boy!

When we almost ready to go out for our late breakfast early lunch at Gurney Plaza, Kelvin insisted that he wants to bring along his sling bag. I told him NOPE, but he insisted, so in order not to create any unnecessary unhappiness between me and him, so i agree to let him bring along his bag but with the condition, he needs to bring it himself, not me! I didn't even check what is inside his bag, as i trust my little boy, he wont bring rubbish in his bag, LOL!

We reached Gurney around 1030am, and the place that we want to go for our meal is not ready until 11am. So we let the kids run around at the ground floor and they found out there's a small amusement center right in front of the BBQ Plaza. At first, they just explore each of the machines, and after one round, i guess they found out what they want, so Kelvin start to ask for money to buy the tokens. Not every time we will make his wish come true, so this time we rejected his request. And guess what, he told us, "no worry, i got money!" and i was like "huh?" Guess what, he transferred the money in his piggy bank into a small pencil casing. Both me and hub speechless, so i only let him get 2 tokens for 1 game.

When we headed to the restaurant, Kelvin gave us another surprise. He took out a bib from his bag by telling us this is for Kaitlyn. She worry that Kaitlyn will dirty her pretty dress, so he insisted that she needs to use bib.

He is such a sweet boy. He gave me 2 surprises just within 1 hr time. :)

His said he can't sleep!

Yday night, Kelvin told me that he can't fall sleep.

K: mummy, i can't sleep. I keep thinking, keep thinking.
M: huh? what is the thing that bother you and you keep thinking?
K: i keep think on how to make mei mei to be a good girl.
M: oh boy **feel so bad, must be when the sister naughty, he also get scolded, coz when i scold, i will scold both of them together :( **
K: mummy, when mei mei become good girl, we buy her a present, ok?
M: sure, what present do you have in your mind?
K: **think for a while** we go cake house and buy her a cake, ok?
M: ok. But mei mei doesn't eat cake. So you buy cake for her, and you eat the cake?
K: yes, buy for her and i eat
M: **slapped forehead** ok, good boy. So now, you need to sleep else you will be late to school tomorrow.

So, he really want the mei mei to be good girl, or he wants to eat cake? LOL!
Kelvin is really a sweet boy. When he sees me get so mad at the sister, he will comfort me by telling me, he will pray to GOD and hope that tomorrow mei mei will be a good girl, LOL!

Why u said Good Morning to your friend but now is night??

Today, when i was having my nite telecon at night, Kelvin was standing beside me. As soon as my US counterpart dial in to the call, i said Good morning to her.

And next, it was thousands and millions of doubts from this little boy.
K: Mummy, why you said GOOD MORNING to your friend, now is night time already
M: oh....boy. U got it partially right. It's our night time here, but my friend, she stays in US, and now she just wake up from sleep, so i say GOOD MORNING to her.

I know, he doesn't know that i am talking, and he doesn't buy my explanation. He just keep quiet and walk away from me. LOL! Boy ar boy, hope mummy doesn't confuse you :)

吾家有女成长 - My growing up girl

** I have been missing in blogging for quite some time...until recently, i think i better be active back in blogging and write down the sweet moments of me with the kids**

It's really fun to have a girl as,

1. You can dress up your girl as u like
2. Girl is more caring than boy
3. Girl know how to win daddy and mummy's heart

And....

But, all these fun will go away when...

1. Your girl start to have their own thought and opinion
2. Your girl start to make their own decision

I used to enjoy my time with my girl until recently....

1. She started to have her own decision
2. She started to have her own thought

Stared from last Monday, every morning i need to fight with her on what to wear to school. And she will tell me she wants to wear dress instead of her usual shirt and short pant. The great reason that she gave me and hubb is "I want to wear like mummy, mummy wear dress!" **slapped forehead** So the main culprit is MUMMY!! I don't like to wear pant, so i will wear dress or blouse n skirt to work. I will only wear pant to work once in the blue moon.

Even during weekend, she also insisted to wear dress in the house, and somemore do it like fashion show. For just few hours in the morning til noon, she changed 3 dresses, LOL!

I hardly wear jeans. So, a week before our trip to Taiwan, i took out my old jeans and wear to work. As soon as Kaiyltn see me in jeans, she instructed me to take it off and asked me why am i wearing daddy's jeans. ** slapped forehead** Cannot blame her, as she NEVER see me wearing jeans, LOL!