The value of a gem is in the eyes of the beholder. My boy has his own unique-ness which is easy going and over energetic, he has endless energy ! My girl might not carry any good value in certain peoples' eye but to me, she is unique, she has her own personality and she has the innocence-ness which a kid should have.
No doubt academic performance is important, but to me, i prefer good attitude rather than good academy performance. You may not be the top students in study, but, i am proud of you. Darling, "just believe in yourself!", "success all depends on the second letter, U!"
I keep remind both of them, don't overjoy or upset on your current performance, life is full of unexpected challenges.
Boy, i am proud of you, and good job on your academic performance! 棒!! However, i have one condition, remember rule of thumb #1, "DON'T impose too much pressure on yourself ! "
Girl, your result not as good as keke but i know you have done your very best! "Keep it up! 加油!! 输在起跑点无所谓,最重要是, 你要和赢者一起达到终点."
Showing posts with label Kaitlyn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kaitlyn. Show all posts
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Friday, April 3, 2015
It's not a perfect world
My poor girl suddenly wake up in her sleep and cried badly saying one of her friends took away her tissue in school. Well, my girl's style is, she will be ok if her closed friend took away her thing; however, she will feel agitated if someone who is not so closed with her take or touch her thing. So, obviously, the person who took her tissue is someone who is not that closed with her. She told me she did inform teacher, but teacher told her it's small matter. Yes, to teacher , it's small matter; but, to my little girl, it's not a small matter. Can't blame the teacher, they have too many students issues to handle in school.
Luckily, she has a closed friend in school, Vion. Vion noticed she's upset so bought her a strawberry cake to cheer her up. She's such a sweet little friend of my girl!!
With this, i have to let my girl aware that this world is not a perfect world. She will face different types of people in school. She needs to learn how to take care and protect her own belongings. I doubt she understand me as she's sobbing and in grievance.
Darling,be tough and strong ya!
Luckily, she has a closed friend in school, Vion. Vion noticed she's upset so bought her a strawberry cake to cheer her up. She's such a sweet little friend of my girl!!
With this, i have to let my girl aware that this world is not a perfect world. She will face different types of people in school. She needs to learn how to take care and protect her own belongings. I doubt she understand me as she's sobbing and in grievance.
Darling,be tough and strong ya!
My poor little girl down with mild food poisoning
As usual, i wont be picking up the kids from school on Thursday. Was busy at the kitchen when the kids came home, both got up for their own shower cum water play time after school. Out of the blue, my girl told me she felt cold after shower, actually it's first sign of her not feeling well as she's not fancy with hot water, and always prefer to shower with cold water. Thus, she will never complain cold after shower. But, the careless mummy didn't get the first hint.
After dinner, she told us she felt cold and where should she stand to keep herself warm. Oops....luckily daddy is alert enough and quickly check at her forehead. Actually, daddy also missed the first hint when he felt her little hand a bit at warm side when he picked her up. Quickly, we let her take half of the paracetamol tablet.
The poor little girl so worry about her school homework and insisted to finish the homework. However, she dozed off in front of her small table. LOL!
I hate it very much when the kids down with fever....this means, i can't sleep peacefully at night. Need to keep waking up to check at them. We fed her paracetamol every 4 hourly. She vomited two times, once yesterday night and the other time was this morning. Poor girl.
Since she looks tired and kinda weak, so we decided to keep her at home. After few round of medication, she seems better and the vomit seems under control. Wish she will recover soon as next week will be her first school exam . Get well soon, darling !
After dinner, she told us she felt cold and where should she stand to keep herself warm. Oops....luckily daddy is alert enough and quickly check at her forehead. Actually, daddy also missed the first hint when he felt her little hand a bit at warm side when he picked her up. Quickly, we let her take half of the paracetamol tablet.
The poor little girl so worry about her school homework and insisted to finish the homework. However, she dozed off in front of her small table. LOL!
I hate it very much when the kids down with fever....this means, i can't sleep peacefully at night. Need to keep waking up to check at them. We fed her paracetamol every 4 hourly. She vomited two times, once yesterday night and the other time was this morning. Poor girl.
Since she looks tired and kinda weak, so we decided to keep her at home. After few round of medication, she seems better and the vomit seems under control. Wish she will recover soon as next week will be her first school exam . Get well soon, darling !
Saturday, January 11, 2014
可爱又可恶的哥妹俩
君子报仇千年不晚， 这可是对的。
妹妹一直喜欢作弄哥哥，然后哥哥一直以来都是忍气吞声。。。但是，人总是有极限的嘛。就在有一晚，哥哥终于决定报复。
哥哥很奸诈的从bathroom 走出来，很“友善”的请妹妹刷牙去，还告知妹妹他帮了妹妹准备牙刷，牙膏。妹妹对这善良的哥哥从没怀疑过。
一会儿，妹妹从bathroom 跑出来，问，为什么牙膏那么辣？？？！！！
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。
可恶的哥哥笑个不停，很神气的说，“是我将妈咪的牙膏放在你牙刷上，谁叫你常常弄我！！”
那可怜的妹妹，听了哥哥那么讲，也没反驳。头低低的走进 bathroom 去。我和老公俩完全没介入他们的纠纷，我们在暗暗地笑。他们弄两真的是可爱又可恶的哥妹俩！
妹妹一直喜欢作弄哥哥，然后哥哥一直以来都是忍气吞声。。。但是，人总是有极限的嘛。就在有一晚，哥哥终于决定报复。
哥哥很奸诈的从bathroom 走出来，很“友善”的请妹妹刷牙去，还告知妹妹他帮了妹妹准备牙刷，牙膏。妹妹对这善良的哥哥从没怀疑过。
一会儿，妹妹从bathroom 跑出来，问，为什么牙膏那么辣？？？！！！
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。
可恶的哥哥笑个不停，很神气的说，“是我将妈咪的牙膏放在你牙刷上，谁叫你常常弄我！！”
那可怜的妹妹，听了哥哥那么讲，也没反驳。头低低的走进 bathroom 去。我和老公俩完全没介入他们的纠纷，我们在暗暗地笑。他们弄两真的是可爱又可恶的哥妹俩！
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Foam Party at Hord Rock Hotel
Being invited by an old friend of mine to Hard Rock Hotel foam party, when i told the kids about the plan, both of them looking forward to the event.
It's my fault, i gave the kids wrong info, i told them "the party will be in the pool and the whole pool will be filled up with foam". However, when we reached the pool, realized that the event is not in the pool, but it's beside the pool.
The hotel actually set up the foam party by the beach and keep pumping lots of foam into the pool for the kids to play. In fact, the session being separated into kids and adult. Kids session from 5 til 7pm; whereas adult session is from 7pm onwards. At the entrance of the foam pool, there's an arch shape water spray for the kids to clean themselves after they being covered by foams. Kelvin enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel, however, Kaitlyn doesn't seems enjoying herself. We managed to make her play with the foam for awhile before letting her to play in the real pool with water.
It seems like after awhile, all kids get tired with the foam and they decided to deep into the pool. So, for us, we just need to keep our eyes on the kids as they are jumping in and out from the water. Finally, the lucky draw session start. Both Vanessa and Joel names being called out and they won small souvenir. Poor Kelvin and Kaitlyn, they get nothing..but glad that both of them enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel.
It's tiring, hungry......after get the kids showered, we went to Penang Swimming Club for dinner. Ooops, wrong decision, there are club function and the kitchen busy serving food to them. So, we waited for almost 45 minutes before we can fill up our tummy. By the time we finish our dinner, it's already supper time, 9:20pm. We ended up the day by saying goodbye, see you to each others with 4 grumpy look kids.
It's my fault, i gave the kids wrong info, i told them "the party will be in the pool and the whole pool will be filled up with foam". However, when we reached the pool, realized that the event is not in the pool, but it's beside the pool.
It seems like after awhile, all kids get tired with the foam and they decided to deep into the pool. So, for us, we just need to keep our eyes on the kids as they are jumping in and out from the water. Finally, the lucky draw session start. Both Vanessa and Joel names being called out and they won small souvenir. Poor Kelvin and Kaitlyn, they get nothing..but glad that both of them enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel.
It's tiring, hungry......after get the kids showered, we went to Penang Swimming Club for dinner. Ooops, wrong decision, there are club function and the kitchen busy serving food to them. So, we waited for almost 45 minutes before we can fill up our tummy. By the time we finish our dinner, it's already supper time, 9:20pm. We ended up the day by saying goodbye, see you to each others with 4 grumpy look kids.
Friday, November 15, 2013
Well done, Kaitlyn !
Few days before the prize giving ceremony, teacher told us she won prizes in all the 3 languages writing competition. I still remembered, on the prize giving ceremony morning, when my girl wakes up, she told me she gets number 2 placing in her class, and i jokingly tell her that it must be there's only 2 student in her class.
Frankly, all the while, i under-estimate my little sweetie pie and i put more attention on her brother. I feel so bad for not focusing much on her and i am so proud of her achievement.
Well done, my sweet little girl. Keep it up!
Thursday, October 3, 2013
沉重的心
一直以来，我以为妹妹还小不会因我不在而伤心。但是，我的确错了。还有一天，我就会离家三星期，公干去。
这几天，我再提醒妹妹，出乎预料，妹妹竟然告诉我她会很伤心，会想念我。我试着告诉她，妈咪会买很多礼物回来。再次，出乎预料，她竟然告诉我，她什么都不要，她只要我别去公干。听了，简直就像被人狠狠地从高处扔下来!!
宝贝，妈咪会每天打电话回来跟妳聊哦。只怕，到时候，妳不要跟我聊罢了。还有，记得别跟哥哥打架或吵架噢！
这几天，我再提醒妹妹，出乎预料，妹妹竟然告诉我她会很伤心，会想念我。我试着告诉她，妈咪会买很多礼物回来。再次，出乎预料，她竟然告诉我，她什么都不要，她只要我别去公干。听了，简直就像被人狠狠地从高处扔下来!!
宝贝，妈咪会每天打电话回来跟妳聊哦。只怕，到时候，妳不要跟我聊罢了。还有，记得别跟哥哥打架或吵架噢！
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Leaving home with heavy heart
Dear babies,
All the while i am looking forward for a business trip. When i get the opportunity, without second thought i accept it. However, after awhile after i settle down, my inner heart kept asking me whether should i go or not. After checking with daddy, he very supportive, so i continue with it.
In less than 2 weeks time, to be exact, in 10 days time, i will be flying to Limerick and will only be back home after 24 days. I never be apart with both of you for that long, and i never let both of you of my sight for more than 24 hours. This gonna be a big challenge for me.
For this round, daddy will need to do all the exam revision with both of you as keke's exam fall on the week right after i left. As for meimei, the exam is on end of Oct, so it depends, either during mummy's final week in Limerick or the week right after mummy reached home.
I was thinking how to tell both of you about my long duration business trip, however, daddy informally inform both of you and as expected, both of you do not show any supportive reaction.
Babies, of course, i also wish that the business trip can be shorten. Mummy hope that both of you will listen and corporate with daddy while i am away.
Also, for this year, i will missed the birthday celebration for three of you, keke, meimei and daddy.
All the while i am looking forward for a business trip. When i get the opportunity, without second thought i accept it. However, after awhile after i settle down, my inner heart kept asking me whether should i go or not. After checking with daddy, he very supportive, so i continue with it.
In less than 2 weeks time, to be exact, in 10 days time, i will be flying to Limerick and will only be back home after 24 days. I never be apart with both of you for that long, and i never let both of you of my sight for more than 24 hours. This gonna be a big challenge for me.
For this round, daddy will need to do all the exam revision with both of you as keke's exam fall on the week right after i left. As for meimei, the exam is on end of Oct, so it depends, either during mummy's final week in Limerick or the week right after mummy reached home.
I was thinking how to tell both of you about my long duration business trip, however, daddy informally inform both of you and as expected, both of you do not show any supportive reaction.
Keke , you told me that you will definitely sad as you wont be able to see me for so long;
Meimei , you asked me why can't i only go away for 1 or 2 days.
Babies, of course, i also wish that the business trip can be shorten. Mummy hope that both of you will listen and corporate with daddy while i am away.
Also, for this year, i will missed the birthday celebration for three of you, keke, meimei and daddy.
Monday, September 9, 2013
Kaitlyn first time to dentist for filling
Poor you! While all of us enjoying our dinner in the restaurant, i noticed that you suddenly stop eating and your eyes become so watery. As soon as i asked you what happened, i can clearly seeing tears dropping down on your both cheek. You tried to hold your tears very hard though. You kept sobbing and told me "toothache"
Actually, we brought you to dentist last month, however, due to gum swollen, dentist advised not to do anything til the gum back to normal. Few days later, you told us no more pain, and we just forget about it. Til last night, the pain decided to visit you again.
After dinner, koko asked for McD McFlurry, and initially you told us you don't want any. However, as we approaching the McD ice cream kiosk, you said you are ok and requested a cone type ice cream. Happily, you finished up the whole ice cream all by yourself . Thought everything is over.
NO NO NO!! It's not the end yet. You were up all night crying from toothache, til finally daddy decided to give u paracetamol to ease the pain. Luckily it helps to make you sleep well til tne next morning.
The next morning you wake up freshly and say no more toothache, however, we do not want to take any risk. We told you that we will bring you to dentist at night, and to our surprise, you agree with our plan. ** That really make things easier, at least we no need to create story to make you go to dentist**
Due to it's emergency case, thus, we don't have prior appointment.Daddy dropped us at dental office around 7pm and we just waited for less than 10 minutes for our turn. No fuss from you when we get into the treatment room. Happily you corporate with the dentist. And in about 10 mins time, we are DONE!!!! Bravo my girl!!! Thumbs up !!!!
Saturday, September 7, 2013
First time giving speech on stage
When i being told that my girl and another boy will represent their class giving introduction speech during mini concert, i was so worried. True enough, feedback from teacher is she can't remember the speech even though it's only few sentences. I tried to make her recall what are those sentences but she will stop after she introducing herself. **slapped forehead** However, her partner, the other boy can remember the script very well.Since this is their first time standing on the stage delivering few sentences to so many eyes and ears, their thoughtful teacher decided to pair them up instead of only letting one of them delivering the introduction speech.
On the day before the mini concert, finally my girl can clearly delivering the entire speech for me. However, i still worry as she never has the experience of giving speech in front of so many people. I kept telling her that tomorrow she will stand on the stage and many people will be sitting and standing in front of her. I am not trying to scare her, but i want to give her some hint so that she will not get shocked when she's up on the stage.
Finally..the day has come!!! We reached Penang Times Square around 7:05pm, 5 mins late per the supposed assembly time. However, knowing that Kaitlyn wont be performing til after lantern parade, so we slowly walk towards the assembly area. The area was crowded by parents and performing kids. I helped to tie up Kaitlyn's hair before teacher start to put veil and make up for her.
On the day before the mini concert, finally my girl can clearly delivering the entire speech for me. However, i still worry as she never has the experience of giving speech in front of so many people. I kept telling her that tomorrow she will stand on the stage and many people will be sitting and standing in front of her. I am not trying to scare her, but i want to give her some hint so that she will not get shocked when she's up on the stage.
Finally..the day has come!!! We reached Penang Times Square around 7:05pm, 5 mins late per the supposed assembly time. However, knowing that Kaitlyn wont be performing til after lantern parade, so we slowly walk towards the assembly area. The area was crowded by parents and performing kids. I helped to tie up Kaitlyn's hair before teacher start to put veil and make up for her.
For this year, Kaitlyn and her classmates will be presenting an Indian dance with title "Naandiya". Kaitlyn and one of her classmate gave a short introduction on the title of their dance before they start performing. My heart was pounding when i saw my girl walking towards the mic. I worry that she may have stage fright and forgot all her speech, but seems like i over-worried, she in fact deliver the speech well. BRAVO!!!
And it's not the end of my worry, next will be the dancing time. Again, i worried that she will forget the steps but again...i under estimate my girl. She did very well in the dance !! I feel so relief as soon as the dance finished.
It's really a great achievement for my girl, and i feel very thankful to all the teachers for giving her an opportunity to deliver short speech in front of so many people. This indeed can help my little girl to build up her confidence.
Friday, August 16, 2013
心疼妳的成熟
一直以来，女儿会比儿子比较善解人意，也比较会看我脸色。我以为即将换工，可以放慢脚步，慢慢的将手上的工分出去。我竟然那么天真。我还天真到跟女儿讲我会有更多的时间陪伴她。
我昨晚，做到忘我境界，竟然忘了每个星期四女儿有上额外的英文补习，所以在学校的午睡时间会比平常短。到我觉悟时，女儿已是很累很累。我就问她为什么没提醒妈咪自己很累。让我没想到的回应是，五岁的女儿说，“妈咪，没事，没什么啦，我自是很累，但我看到妳在忙着工作，我就没吵妳”。天啊！！！女儿这句话，她的出发点是要安慰我，但是，她的成熟想法就有如一支很尖很尖的针，深深地插入我内心深处。我竟然那么的粗心，没察觉到女儿很累，还以为她在享受卡通片。仔细回想，我记得，我看到女儿一直在不停地换电视节目台。那就是她发给我的讯号，“妈咪，我很累”！
我真的是个很不称职的妈咪。:(
女儿啊，妳可不可以别那么懂得替妈咪着想，有时，妳得狠很得挎我一巴，让我清醒点！！
我昨晚，做到忘我境界，竟然忘了每个星期四女儿有上额外的英文补习，所以在学校的午睡时间会比平常短。到我觉悟时，女儿已是很累很累。我就问她为什么没提醒妈咪自己很累。让我没想到的回应是，五岁的女儿说，“妈咪，没事，没什么啦，我自是很累，但我看到妳在忙着工作，我就没吵妳”。天啊！！！女儿这句话，她的出发点是要安慰我，但是，她的成熟想法就有如一支很尖很尖的针，深深地插入我内心深处。我竟然那么的粗心，没察觉到女儿很累，还以为她在享受卡通片。仔细回想，我记得，我看到女儿一直在不停地换电视节目台。那就是她发给我的讯号，“妈咪，我很累”！
我真的是个很不称职的妈咪。:(
女儿啊，妳可不可以别那么懂得替妈咪着想，有时，妳得狠很得挎我一巴，让我清醒点！！
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Happy birthday mummy
Again, this year mummy's birthday fall on weekday and somemore it's Wednesday whereby it's a busy day for daddy and me. Daddy will need to attend this usual weekly conference call and for us, we need to stay home waiting for weekly cleaner to clean our house. So, quickly, we had a simple dinner in Queensbay mall.
When we reached home, both of you busy searching high and low in the entire house, looking for whatever things that you guys can put in the box and present to me as present. LOL! After a while you guys finally presented me with a box of toys and also some book as my birthday present.
Both of you are so sweet, love u love u :)
Who said birthday present must be expensive and tangible? The love from the kids are priceless!!!
When we reached home, both of you busy searching high and low in the entire house, looking for whatever things that you guys can put in the box and present to me as present. LOL! After a while you guys finally presented me with a box of toys and also some book as my birthday present.
Both of you are so sweet, love u love u :)
Who said birthday present must be expensive and tangible? The love from the kids are priceless!!!
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
成绩放棒了!!
考试完了, 接下来就是另一个跟刺激的时刻...成绩放棒了!!!!
儿子只把考卷带回, 还没有家长老师会面日,所以,我还不晓得儿子在学校有多乖,多顽皮.儿子考试成绩还不错,但是,数学就倒,太太粗心. 问他有什么感想,他竟然说 NO FEEL.气死我了. 如果,他不会, 我还没那么气, 但是, 他是粗心....希望,在 接下来的考试里,他会较细心.
至于,女儿,家长老师会面日在5/21,但,出呼预料,她竟然考出预料不到超好的成绩!好棒!!!!! 但是, 有被老师投诉,说她在班上有时会发白日梦,有时不回答老师,有时就太多话.....希望女儿会慢慢的变乖,不要那么调皮,
儿子只把考卷带回, 还没有家长老师会面日,所以,我还不晓得儿子在学校有多乖,多顽皮.儿子考试成绩还不错,但是,数学就倒,太太粗心. 问他有什么感想,他竟然说 NO FEEL.气死我了. 如果,他不会, 我还没那么气, 但是, 他是粗心....希望,在 接下来的考试里,他会较细心.
至于,女儿,家长老师会面日在5/21,但,出呼预料,她竟然考出预料不到超好的成绩!好棒!!!!! 但是, 有被老师投诉,说她在班上有时会发白日梦,有时不回答老师,有时就太多话.....希望女儿会慢慢的变乖,不要那么调皮,
Friday, May 17, 2013
Exam week after one another
May is exam week for most school and luckily both kids' exam fall in one week apart, else we will have big hard time. However, even though the exam is one after another, it doesn't make our life perfect too.
Kaitlyn's exam is one week before Kelvin, so when Kaitlyn burning her midnight oil, instead of accompanying the sister burning midnight oil, Kelvin busy wondering around in the house and this also impacting Kaitlyn's study mood. However, we didn't push the kids too much, just let them move at their own pace.
Finally....Kaitlyn finished her exam. So with this means, Kelvin will have his exam then. So while Kelvin burning his midnight oil, Kaitlyn's turn to wondering around in the house, LOL! After Tue, Wed and Thus, finally....exam finish!!!
So, that's the end of exam fun for both kids and both me and hubb!!! Another will be by Sep/Oct. So we still have few months to breath before the next exam wave hitting us.
Kaitlyn's exam is one week before Kelvin, so when Kaitlyn burning her midnight oil, instead of accompanying the sister burning midnight oil, Kelvin busy wondering around in the house and this also impacting Kaitlyn's study mood. However, we didn't push the kids too much, just let them move at their own pace.
Finally....Kaitlyn finished her exam. So with this means, Kelvin will have his exam then. So while Kelvin burning his midnight oil, Kaitlyn's turn to wondering around in the house, LOL! After Tue, Wed and Thus, finally....exam finish!!!
So, that's the end of exam fun for both kids and both me and hubb!!! Another will be by Sep/Oct. So we still have few months to breath before the next exam wave hitting us.
Friday, March 29, 2013
Battle with Stomach Flu ~ It's almost coming to the end
After fighting with stomach flu for close to 1 week, to be exact, 6 days, it's finally almost coming to the end. Yesterday the whole day, there isn't any vomit or diarrhea reported by the school teacher, and also no vomit or diarrhea at home. But yet, i still dare not say it's completely ok, as i still prefer to put you under observation. In fact, you stated to have back your regular intake of milk powder at school. You has been asking for milk in the past few days, and we always give you the standard answer, "No, you can only drink soya bean milk"
As soon as you back from school, you asked for vitagen. We has been saying big NO NO to you for the past few days when you are fighting with stomach flu. And finally, on last night, we let you enjoy it.
After a while, you requested for fruit. You must be missing all your favorite fruits so much.
K: mummy, can i have fruit?
M: **hesitate for a while** Yes, sure.
K: Then, can i eat strawberry?
M: ** oops** oh, sweetie, nope, u can't take strawberry yet
K: mummy, what about orange, i see there is so many orange in the fridge.
M: oh, sweetie, u can't eat orange either. What about apple, u can take apple.
K: ok, anything also can. ** since your two requests being rejected, so you just agree with what i suggested**
So happily you agree to go with apple.
And it's not the end of the story yet, by 10pm, you said that you are hungry. So, what to do?? Since daddy and keke also feeling hungry, so we went out for light supper at the koay teow thng shop outside of our house. After food, i asked you to sleep and your respond is "sleep without milk?" My gosh, you just had your bee hoon soup, and you still need milk. LOL! Obviously, your are on the way of recovering and claiming back all your appetite. In order not to disappoint you, i make a small cup of milk for you and happily you went to bed after the milk.
As soon as you back from school, you asked for vitagen. We has been saying big NO NO to you for the past few days when you are fighting with stomach flu. And finally, on last night, we let you enjoy it.
After a while, you requested for fruit. You must be missing all your favorite fruits so much.
K: mummy, can i have fruit?
M: **hesitate for a while** Yes, sure.
K: Then, can i eat strawberry?
M: ** oops** oh, sweetie, nope, u can't take strawberry yet
K: mummy, what about orange, i see there is so many orange in the fridge.
M: oh, sweetie, u can't eat orange either. What about apple, u can take apple.
K: ok, anything also can. ** since your two requests being rejected, so you just agree with what i suggested**
So happily you agree to go with apple.
And it's not the end of the story yet, by 10pm, you said that you are hungry. So, what to do?? Since daddy and keke also feeling hungry, so we went out for light supper at the koay teow thng shop outside of our house. After food, i asked you to sleep and your respond is "sleep without milk?" My gosh, you just had your bee hoon soup, and you still need milk. LOL! Obviously, your are on the way of recovering and claiming back all your appetite. In order not to disappoint you, i make a small cup of milk for you and happily you went to bed after the milk.
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Stomach flu, Day #3
Last night was a good night for all of us, no fuss from you when we wake you up 2 times for medicine. And this morning you wake up around 7:30am while all of us still in our sweet dream. Thought everything is ok, however, you throw out again while we are out for breakfast. Sigh...poor girl. Again, you told us that you are hungry and want to eat wan tan mee. Oh, a big NO NO, and mummy tried to persuade you to go for porridge. Luckily you are such a good girl, you agree to have porridge but, you told me that i MUST buy you wan tan mee when you fully recover.
Breakfast settled. Then we went to QBM after breakfast as keke is having his weekly Taekwondo class there. Another headache, where to go for lunch after keke's class?? Think think think...where can we have porridge...think think think..tadaaaaa, the nearby 上海鼎 restaurant. You enjoy the porridge very much and keke ordered honey lemon and you insisted that you want to have few sip. At first, we dont allow you to have, but you kept insist. So at last, i let you try some and deep in my heart keep pray that you wont have stomach pain. True enough, while daddy paying the bill, you told me that you have stomach upset. Luckily our house is nearby and as soon as we reached home, you rushed to toilet to release yourself.
And tonight, where to go for dinner? Both you and keke said want to go back to De Happy seafood restaurant for teochew porridge. Hope there will be no more vomit from you after tonight.
Breakfast settled. Then we went to QBM after breakfast as keke is having his weekly Taekwondo class there. Another headache, where to go for lunch after keke's class?? Think think think...where can we have porridge...think think think..tadaaaaa, the nearby 上海鼎 restaurant. You enjoy the porridge very much and keke ordered honey lemon and you insisted that you want to have few sip. At first, we dont allow you to have, but you kept insist. So at last, i let you try some and deep in my heart keep pray that you wont have stomach pain. True enough, while daddy paying the bill, you told me that you have stomach upset. Luckily our house is nearby and as soon as we reached home, you rushed to toilet to release yourself.
And tonight, where to go for dinner? Both you and keke said want to go back to De Happy seafood restaurant for teochew porridge. Hope there will be no more vomit from you after tonight.
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Unwelcome guest - Stomach flu. Day #1 and #2
While picking up keke at the school on Friday, i received a call from your kindy teacher saying that you had sudden fever. I was shocked hearing that as in the morning when i dropped you to school, you seems ok.Thus, when she asked whether can she give you a dose of fever medicine or not, i told teacher, "nope, it's ok, i will pick her up shortly" Deep in my heart, i hope that you are not having stomach flu, but my instinct told me that it's high chance that you are attacked by stomach flu.
According to school teacher, you throw out twice in the school, first time is after afternoon nap and second time is before dinner. Since you are not havving good appetitie after that, so your dinner is just 2 pieces of biscuit. You seems a bit not so active when i picked you up, i guess probably you feel tired after vomit.
You didn't take anything while we went out for dinner, you only drink one glass of barley and awhile later you complained that stomach not feeling well. Quickly, we went home, but instead of poo, you vomited out the barley that you had during dinner. After a while, you asked for biscuit, and with heavy heart, we have to give you since you are not having any food since 3pm and you in fact vomited 3 times, your stomach must be very empty. Luckily no vomit after that.
Thought that everything is over as you asked for pan mee as lunch on Saturday. however, on our way to QBM for movie, you vomited in the car. Sigh. Means, it's not over though, there is still some toxic in your stomach that need to clear out. Again, after vomit, you said you are ok. So, we still proceed for our movie plan.
Everything seems ok until 5:20pm. On our way out to drop keke for his swimming class , you vomited in the car. We turned back home and clean you up as well as cleaning the car. Thought everything is over, but again, i am wrong. After a while, you throut out again in the car, but this time i am well prepared, i quickly gave you a plastic bag and guess what...i saw some yellowish fluid coming out from your mouth, and without second doubt, we bring you to see doctor. As Saturday is off day for Adventist hospital, so we need to go to Emergency Room and luckily Dr Khaw already there treating other patients thus we just need to wait for a while for our turn.
When Dr Khaw checked at you, and as soon as he heard mummy saying there is yellowish fluid out from your mouth, he said that fluid coming from gallbladder. Oh no....meaning the infection is very very bad. As both doctor and us do not wish to go for admission, so we decided to have the treatment at home. However, doctor recommended that you need to have one injection to stop the vomit. As a result, we have many types of medicine for you:-
Wow, you have a real good appetite, you ate 1.5 bowls of PLAIN porridge. Daddy and mummy a bit hesitate to let you eat so much, but seeing you eating the plain porridge happily, so we keep pray that no vomit after that. Phew....everything ok, no vomit after the porridge.
Before we call off the night, mummy told you that we will be waking you up middle of the night for fever medicine. Need to pre-alert you so that you wont be cranky at middle of the night while we wake you up.
According to school teacher, you throw out twice in the school, first time is after afternoon nap and second time is before dinner. Since you are not havving good appetitie after that, so your dinner is just 2 pieces of biscuit. You seems a bit not so active when i picked you up, i guess probably you feel tired after vomit.
You didn't take anything while we went out for dinner, you only drink one glass of barley and awhile later you complained that stomach not feeling well. Quickly, we went home, but instead of poo, you vomited out the barley that you had during dinner. After a while, you asked for biscuit, and with heavy heart, we have to give you since you are not having any food since 3pm and you in fact vomited 3 times, your stomach must be very empty. Luckily no vomit after that.
Thought that everything is over as you asked for pan mee as lunch on Saturday. however, on our way to QBM for movie, you vomited in the car. Sigh. Means, it's not over though, there is still some toxic in your stomach that need to clear out. Again, after vomit, you said you are ok. So, we still proceed for our movie plan.
Everything seems ok until 5:20pm. On our way out to drop keke for his swimming class , you vomited in the car. We turned back home and clean you up as well as cleaning the car. Thought everything is over, but again, i am wrong. After a while, you throut out again in the car, but this time i am well prepared, i quickly gave you a plastic bag and guess what...i saw some yellowish fluid coming out from your mouth, and without second doubt, we bring you to see doctor. As Saturday is off day for Adventist hospital, so we need to go to Emergency Room and luckily Dr Khaw already there treating other patients thus we just need to wait for a while for our turn.
When Dr Khaw checked at you, and as soon as he heard mummy saying there is yellowish fluid out from your mouth, he said that fluid coming from gallbladder. Oh no....meaning the infection is very very bad. As both doctor and us do not wish to go for admission, so we decided to have the treatment at home. However, doctor recommended that you need to have one injection to stop the vomit. As a result, we have many types of medicine for you:-
- Injection to stop the vomit
- Motilium
- Probiotic
- Unasyn antibiotic
- Paracetamol
- ORS
Wow, you have a real good appetite, you ate 1.5 bowls of PLAIN porridge. Daddy and mummy a bit hesitate to let you eat so much, but seeing you eating the plain porridge happily, so we keep pray that no vomit after that. Phew....everything ok, no vomit after the porridge.
Before we call off the night, mummy told you that we will be waking you up middle of the night for fever medicine. Need to pre-alert you so that you wont be cranky at middle of the night while we wake you up.
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
骂孩子后的心酸反思........
好讨厌自己那无法放开,放松的态度.
孩子们竟然偷偷的繼承了我一些不好的基因:-没有坚持心 & 粗心
辛好,他们也同时偷偷的繼承了老公良好的基因:-好脾气,健忘
我的脾气不是很好,也是个很没有耐心的人,深受其害的多是我老公.接下来就是两个孩子.哈哈!
虽然,我常常讲,别 给孩子压力,让他们自由发挥,但是, 活在这现实的社会里, 有是我们会搞得自己很不理智. 常常告诉自己, 教育好自己的孩子,不要想着他/她以后会是什么家, 毕竟行行出状元嘛. 太过逼孩子们去帮自己完成自己无法达到的梦想, 对孩子们是很不公 平. 但是,自己就是放不下, 一直深怕孩子功课追不上..
一向来, 我也知道他字体不端, 但不至于很难看到无法读. 但是, 现在国民型华小老师很在意同学们的字体. 第一次与他级任老师见面,第一个评论就是字体不端, 我还很礼貌的回答老师, 叫老师多多帮忙纠正 我猜, 老师内心深处一定痛骂我. 晚上回来,我骂了他一顿,他低着头.
昨晚, 我又因为儿子字体不端而痛骂他一场. 他没哭,眼泪一直在眼里打滚,只是俩只眼睛一直看着我. 已不是第一次了, 每次都警告他,若从犯, 我会狠狠的处罚他. 但, 每次都没.
每次,骂完后,深夜,,孩子睡了,我感觉我的孩子真可怜,不懂刚刚我那么骂他, 他心里会很难受吗?我心里很难受,很难受. 有时, 我会伤心的落泪, 很懊悔, 为什么我要那么骂他. 毕竟, 他还小, 当我还是他那年龄时, 我还在迷迷糊糊的学着ABC. 有时, 我会在孩子们熟睡时在他们那可爱的小脸,亲一亲,何必在事情发生了才懊悔, 为什么不学会控制自己.? 为什么还总是抱怨孩子记不住家长和老 师的话呢? 为什么? 为什么? 为什么?
辛好,孩子们还蛮健忘, 睡醒就忘了刚被我痛骂. 几天后, 老毛病又来了. 哪我呢, 也是老毛病重犯,骂骂骂. 但,我坚持,只骂, 不打. 要打, 我也是用手打. 若,忍无可忍, 我就用手打桌子,练个铁沙掌…. 哈哈!
有时, 我在想,孩子们去上学,会不会像我们去上班那样有压力? 我们是否应该放下身段,站在他们的立场上想?其实孩子们想法很单纯,要的也不多,不像我们大人那么复杂. 为什么我不简简单单的教育他们? 无论我们怎样对待他们,他们总可以以一颗最纯净的心来对待我们, 孩子们,你们是上帝送给我的最佳礼物!!!!孩子们,希望你们可以体会到妈咪的用心良苦. 别怪我哦!
Monday, March 18, 2013
我是正版马来西亚学生
我在厨房里忙东忙西, 洗完这这, 就洗那,,,,像只脱了线的风争飞来飞去.
当我在拿着烧水时,发现女儿竟然在没声之下,站在我身后. 第一反应就是骂她, 因为, 我常告诉她别站在我身后, 尤其在厨房. 猜猜看她怎样回答我....
她说, "妈咪, 妳marah 我, 我会很 sad 的," 然后呢, 她竟然拼出, s..a...d, sad. 哇, 我真的没想到这女儿会用三个语言構建句子.
所以嘛...你说, 我是不是该表扬她, 懂得善用所学的语言, 哈哈!
当我在拿着烧水时,发现女儿竟然在没声之下,站在我身后. 第一反应就是骂她, 因为, 我常告诉她别站在我身后, 尤其在厨房. 猜猜看她怎样回答我....
她说, "妈咪, 妳marah 我, 我会很 sad 的," 然后呢, 她竟然拼出, s..a...d, sad. 哇, 我真的没想到这女儿会用三个语言構建句子.
所以嘛...你说, 我是不是该表扬她, 懂得善用所学的语言, 哈哈!
Friday, March 15, 2013
可爱的女儿
女儿不耍脾气时是蛮可爱的.
最近, 不懂从哪里学来, 一直叫我教她如何一眼开, 一眼眨, 起初,她无法做到, 但这几天, 她竟然可以掌握到这技巧.
还有, 当她看到我穿比较有色彩的裙子, 她就会要求我, 不穿了,别丢,留给她以后穿. 好几次, 我说, 女儿, 若妳以后穿上妈咪现在穿的裙子, 肯定会被朋友笑. 她竟然理直气壮的说, "不会,朋友不会笑我的". 哈哈!咱们就看妳以后敢不敢穿妈咪留给妳的裙子.
有时, 她还会穿我的高跟鞋在家里走来走去,好怕她拌倒.
带她去买鞋,更头疼,她总要找高跟鞋,不然的话就是颜色奇奇怪怪, 很难配搭衣服那种. 我得费很长时间说服她, 但蛮好玩的.
买衣呢...就不要那种保守的, 衣领高高的- 不要; 袖子长长的- 不要; 颜色暗淡的- 不要.
吃东西呢, 不能一下子避她吃太多,不然的话, 待会儿, 我就有得受, 她会连本带利的呼虏哗啦的吐出来. 哎,我又没空了.
读书, 哇...好挑战, 她不喜欢. 教了一小时,骂了半小时, 待会儿,她可以将所学的忘了一干二净. 超棒! 我得安慰自己,无所谓, 给她时间, 行行出状元嘛,
但, 还是很感谢上帝给了我这宝贝女儿. 妈咪爱妳.
最近, 不懂从哪里学来, 一直叫我教她如何一眼开, 一眼眨, 起初,她无法做到, 但这几天, 她竟然可以掌握到这技巧.
还有, 当她看到我穿比较有色彩的裙子, 她就会要求我, 不穿了,别丢,留给她以后穿. 好几次, 我说, 女儿, 若妳以后穿上妈咪现在穿的裙子, 肯定会被朋友笑. 她竟然理直气壮的说, "不会,朋友不会笑我的". 哈哈!咱们就看妳以后敢不敢穿妈咪留给妳的裙子.
有时, 她还会穿我的高跟鞋在家里走来走去,好怕她拌倒.
带她去买鞋,更头疼,她总要找高跟鞋,不然的话就是颜色奇奇怪怪, 很难配搭衣服那种. 我得费很长时间说服她, 但蛮好玩的.
买衣呢...就不要那种保守的, 衣领高高的- 不要; 袖子长长的- 不要; 颜色暗淡的- 不要.
吃东西呢, 不能一下子避她吃太多,不然的话, 待会儿, 我就有得受, 她会连本带利的呼虏哗啦的吐出来. 哎,我又没空了.
读书, 哇...好挑战, 她不喜欢. 教了一小时,骂了半小时, 待会儿,她可以将所学的忘了一干二净. 超棒! 我得安慰自己,无所谓, 给她时间, 行行出状元嘛,
但, 还是很感谢上帝给了我这宝贝女儿. 妈咪爱妳.
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