Today, when i read the Preschooler progress from Baby Center, suddenly i feel lost. My girl actually now is at her three year, fifth month age, but all the while i kept push her to be a four years old kid. When i read flash card to her, if she can't recognize the word on the next 2 days, i will get upset and will make her kept repeating the word few times. And i kept want her to sit down and start doing the writing and i even start making her to do simple mathematics matching activities.
Of all, she loves the writing and simple mathematics matching activities except recognizing word. She refuse to really remember the word, but one thing that she really amaze me is, eventhough she can't recognize the word, but she can remember the simple sentence in her story book, word by word. For those who doesn't know her well will thought that she can read by herself , LOL!
Shall i slow down a bit and let her grow at her own pace.......every night, when i see her fall asleep, i feel so guilty for not able to spend much of my time with her, and feel guilty and sorry for kept pushing at her academy. Girl, hope you will understand mummy and wont angry at me.
Joanne, please stay easy and be patient. Kaitlyn is still very young, please give her more praise than pressure.
ReplyDeleteYan, thanks for the advise, u r right, i need to give her more pleasure, praise instead of pressure.
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