Me Me and Me ...

Tagged by Evan ko ko , he wants to know something about me. Wow, a bit tough as i need to recall all of them, as you should know, baby like me who is 9 months old wont have good memory.

Before that, let me show you 4 pics of me

4 jobs that i have had in my life:
1. Baby in mummy's womb
2. Baby to daddy and mummy, Ah Kong, Ah Ma, Aunties, Uncles...
3. New owner of the 3 doggies at home
4. Good baby in nursery

4 places i have lived:
1. Mummy's comfy womb for 9 months
2. Minden Height - Ah Kong's house
3. Lavinia Apt - My home sweet home
4. Weekday day time in D'Monte Nursery

places i have been for vacation:
1. KL

4 of my favourite food:
1. Biscuits
2. Wheat bread
3. Porridge
4. Fruits

4 places i would rather be right now:
1. beside mummy
2. on my play mat
3. ZzzzzzZzzzzzzzzz in my pooh wonderland aka Home Sweet Home
4. Shopping

4 friends to tag :
1. Vernon - Lay See, you can ask Vernon to do this
2. Wei Yan - First tag from me
3. Lynus - hahaha..u think u can run away from me..still owe me many many updates ya!
4. Jayden - Sasha, Kelvin like to know a bit about Jayden, hope i tag u at the right site:)

wow, finish already.Ok, mummy, i wanna go play with my nursery friends now. And later, take shower, ZZzzzzzzzz then wake up for porridge, waiting for daddy and mummy pick me up!

Baby, it's hard for me too

Nowadays, it's getting more and more challenging to drop you to nursery. Every morning, i will let you sit on my lap in the car instead of your car seat since the journey from our apt to the nursery is less than 3 mins, and you will lay on my chest (very manja huh). When we reach nursery, it's the hardest moment for both of us.

When i hand over you to teacher, you will show me "mummy don't leave me" face. Baby, how i wish i can be with you the whole day, but mummy need to work. It's not easy for me to sat bye bye with you anymore. Teacher has to distract you with some other thing, meanwhile mummy quickly sneak out from the nursery, unlike those old days, where you will wave bye bye happily with us at the gate and mummy will go off happily. Well, i guess i need to admit that my baby boy grow up and this is what we call separation anxiety. For few times, you will cry until tears coming out. Oh...it's so heart wrenching when i see so, as you seldom cry til tears coming out.

Everyday when i drop you to nursery, i look forward to the evening so that i can pick you up.

Baby, no worry, daddy & mummy love you sooooooooooooooooooo much, it's hard for us to say bye bye with you at nursery (that's why everytime after we drop you at nursery, daddy quickly get back to the car ?? ) , but we have no choice, hope you will understand us.

Finally, you sleep back in your cot

Last night, mummy decided to let you sleep in your cot. I thought i may fail to do so, but guess what!! You sleep in your cot throughout the nite! Yes Yes . baby, we did it!

However, throughout the nite, daddy and mummy kept waking up to look at you. And once, daddy saw you sit up and sleep :) oh...poor boy..mummy carry you up and nurse you, then out you back in your cot again. Also, we noticed that you found new way to turn yourself. You will sit up and "pomp" to whichever direction you want. So thgourhout the night, we heard lots of "pomp" noise, some noise due to your changing sleeping direction/postion, some noise due to your leg bang on the railing of the cot.

Previously, when you co-bed with us, once we move, you will get distracted. This morning, when daddy mummy wake up, you didn't wake up. Must be you sleep on your own bed so you wont feel any of our movement. When mummy get out from shower, i saw you standing up in your cot looking for us, quickly i carry you and you gave us a SWEET morning smile.

Daddy is back!!!

Today is 9th day daddy away from home and yes, he is coming back!! 2 days earlier than the original schedule.

This morning, we woke up around 8am. Why? Because we are going for breakfast then pick up daddy from airport! Yippie, daddy is back!!

We went to Sg Tiram for roti bakar, but you don't get to eat those. Mummy brought along your baby bite so while we enjoying our bread, you ate your biscuit. You kept ask for more and more.
After breakfast, it's still early, so Ah Kong drive slowly towards airport, yet we still 30 mins ahead of time, so Ah Kong drove us to Teluk Kumbar. When we back to airport, we saw one Singapore Airline aeroplane just touched down, wow, daddy ahead of original schedule too! So mummy and Ah Ma brought you to the arrival hall to wait for daddy. You seems very excited everytime you go to airport. Maybe of the cool air cond make you excited!

After 10 mins of waiting and walking around..gosh, 10 mins seems like 1 hr for me as i need to carry you walk here and there, kept you well entertained. Finally, mummy saw daddy and quickly i carried you to the exit and the moment daddy greeted you, you so excited and want him to carry you. Along the way back, you sat on daddy's lap and kept "talking" to him. Are you updating daddy on your progress and activities while he's away for business trip?

Here is what daddy get for you..

After playing with the toy car for a while, you decided to go to your dreamland. You slept til around 12 noon then wake up for lunch. After that daddy and mummy went to Queensbay Mall for quick shopping as La Senza is having sales :p

We supposed to go over to Mainland's Starview Restaurant for dinner as daddy misses the Fish steamboat there. As we all dressed up and ready to go out, the rain getting heavy and heavier. So Ah Kong call off the plan and we have to undress you. You refused to take your usual evening nap, maybe you afraid that we may sneak out while you are sleeping.

Around 9pm, mummy tried to nurse you and let you sleep. Oh gosh, you are so naughty. Maybe you know daddy is back, and if mummy scold and angry at you, you still have daddy to back you up! You even try to climb up daddy's chest, but too bad, daddy total flat at night, so he didn't play with you. After few attempt of nursing you, finally, you decided to go into your ZZzzzzland.

Home alone with mummy - Day 8

Yes, today will be your last day home alone with mummy. Received daddy's phone call on yesterday morning that he will come back earlier by 2 days as he misses both of us! Yippie!! We will get to see daddy in less than 24 hrs time!

This morning you wake up around 7:55am and when mummy told you about daddy's return schedule, you look at me as if you know what i am talking. Yes, you feel happy and excited to see daddy right? Hmm....wonder what daddy buy for you? Quite a lot...not going to tell you, let you figure it out tomorrow.

Your running nose seems getting better than before, but you have cough. Sigh...Hope you will recover fast so that we can bring you out to the mall :)

Home alone with mummy - Day 6 & 7

Nothing special happen on these few days... except you have running nose, shout like mad when mummy feed you polaramine.

Daddy gets a bit worry when i told him you had mild running nose, he kept ask me what causes this, did i give you enough water, did i take care you properly....etc.

Daddy called back this morning, he said he might be coming back earlier than the original schedule depend on flight availability. I guess he misses both of us a lot, especially you :) Baby, do you misses daddy too?

Home alone with mummy - Day 5

Dear baby,

We lost the battle again! Yesterday when mummy picked you up, you sneezed couple of time in the car and the next thing was, mucus coming out from your nose. Sigh, running nose again. Mummy fed you polaramine before we go to bed and the whole night you seems unable to sleep well and kept turn here and there and a bit crankly. Mummy has to on and off hold you in my arm.

You didn't get to "talked" to daddy as you were in your ZZzzland when daddy called back. Daddy yet to have his breakfast and daddy need to get himself ready to go work as his colleague will pick him up in one hour time. It will be a hectic day for daddy as he will be doing presentation on his project in the afternoon. After the event, daddy will be freeman, he can sit back and relax himself.

I hope you will recover as soon as possible.

Home alone with mummy - Day 4

Mummy bought this for you sometime ago and i worried that it may be too tight for you...Mummy packed the jeans into your school bag...teached helped you to try on it...taa daa....Hey there, do i look adorable in my jeans?




Daddy called back to talk to mummy and you get to "talked" to him too....daddy called out your name, you are so happy..you kept look at the phone, and i think you may thought that daddy is in the phone...haha

Home alone with mummy - Day 3

Today is replacement holiday for mummy. Hmm..what to do....after thinking, rethink and think...mummy finally decided to go for haircut. So, mummy and Ah Ma went to our usual hairdresser (your hairdresser too) for haircut.

When mummy picked you up, you look at me for a while. You must be wondering who is this lady...hahaha. Today, 2nd Ee Poh came back from Vietnam, since Ah Ma had dinner appointment, so mummy and Ah Kong went to pick you up. Ah Kong drove slowly to the airport after we pick you up. 2nd Ee Poh's flight delayed, so mummy need to carry you walk here and there at the arrival hall.

Finally, 2nd Ee Poh arrived. You sort like recognise her and not recognising her. However, you throw a sweet smile when 2nd Ee Poh called out your name.

Daddy called back and you were awake at that time, so daddy "talked" to you for a while. Expected, you wont be able to answer back, but you kept smilling with the phone...hahaha.

And 3rd night, thank god....you well behave :) Good job baby.

Home alone with mummy - Day 2

As usual, Uncle Kenny will call home using Skype. When you heard his voice, you call out "pa pa" immediately. Uncle Kenny so happy and excited as you called him "pa pa". U misses daddy too much until you didn't hear the voice properly and straight call out "pa pa" whenever u heard any familia guy's voice.

Mummy received daddy's sms around 12:30am, you were in your Zzzzland. Mummy's handphone sms alert tone somehow disturb your sweet sleep as i can see you turn left and right everytime the sms alert tone rang.

Yesterday night, we went to our room around 10pm, we played on the bed for a while before you "crawl" over to me and want me to nurse you. While mummy nursing you, you somehow decided to roll on the bed again. Mummy put you down and you turn left right and i think you suddenly noticed that daddy is not around. You rest your head on daddy's pillow for a while then roll over to me and "hug" me. Pity boy, u misses your daddy huh, but you are such a good boy, you didn't give mummy any hard time this round comparing to the first time daddy away for business trip.

Daddy called back this morning but too bad, you went to school already. Will see whether will daddy call back again tonite and mummy will let you talk to him.

Home alone with mummy - Day 1

Yesterday, we send daddy to airport around 8:15pm. We didn't stay in airport for too long as daddy's flight is at 9:10pm. Our little Kelvin boy super excited as if he is the one going for holiday. As usual, little Kelvin always super excited when we bring him out.

Mummy and you left airport after you kisses daddy for few times. You will kiss us when you feel like doing so......naughty boy. So yesterday daddy had no choice besides ask you to kiss him...hahahaha.

Initially mummy wonder whether can i take care of you alone at night, and YES!!! We managed to do it! After playing for a while with Ah Ma and Ee Poh in the room, mummy decided to let you sleep. So as usual, i nursed you, and hold you in my arm, pretty fast, you Zzzzzz in my arm Phew, what a relief.

When mummy talked to daddy around 10:30pm while he's in Singapore, daddy thought you still awake. Too bad, daddy didn't get to talk to you as you already in your sweet sweet dreamland :)
Daddy will be away for 10 days, so hopefully you will behave good good boy at night.

Yes, you did it!!

Yesterday night when mummy change your pajamas for you...you were lying on your chest, suddenly i saw you move your bum bum up and the next thing is...You sit up straight. Oh my gosh, my little baby Kelvin able to sit up straight from sleeping position WITHOUT any help. Previously, you will ask for our help but yesterday you did it all by yourself. After that, you sort like discovered the secret of doing it, you kept doing it for few times. And of course, everytime you did it, you will show a happy and satisfy smile. Good job, baby

My little one 9 mths already!

Dear baby,

I can't believe...you are 9 months now! And soon, you will be celebrating your 1 yr old birthday in less than 3 months time!

Guess what, mummy just noticed that you have 6 teeth now!! 4 at the top and 2 at bottom. No wonder you able to bite me til bleeding and until i nearly have to put plaster ...hahaha! You know where you bite? You bite me when i nurse you. Naughty huh! And now, i have phobia that everytime when i nurse you, i need to remind you "cannot bite mummy ya!" Thank god, you get the message and didn't bite me :)

My daddy travelling again

My NaUgHtY bAbY!

Today, when mummy pick you up, you were playing with Ms Goh. With the help from Ms Goh, you walked towards mummy and instruct me to carry you. YES, you can walk, but with the help from others.

Mummy chit-chatted a bit with teacher Chuah and Ms Goh...

Mummy : Did Kelvin "boooooph" at you during feeding time?
Mdm Chuah : Yes, he did. When he is full and don't want anymore porridge, he will "boooooph" out porridge from his mouth
Ms Goh : Yes, when i told Kelvin "Shhh", and he wanna immiate what i'm doing, he "boooooph" instead.

Mdm Chuah : Mrs Chiang, today you forget to bring Kelvin's bed sheet and bolster cover, when Kelvin about going into his dreamland, he will touches his bolster, but today, he can feel that the texture of the bolster is different, he kept push the bolster away and have difficulty going into his dreamland. We gotta use other baby's bolster to trick him.
Mummy : **slap forehead** Alamak, how come this baby boy so fussy....(but deep in my heart, i am so proud of you, because you able to recognise your own thing, own smell...)

Then 3 of us had a good laugh over what you did.

You see, the result of over excited

As you were super excited while we were in Aunty Angeline's condo, ended up, you had nightmare at night, Around 11:45pm, suddenly i heard a loud cry. Oh, my baby Kelvin crying loud. No matter how daddy and mummy call you, you just close your eyes tightly and keep crying, At last, mummy carry you up and let you rest your head on my shoulder then only you calm down. After a while, about 5 mins later, another loud cry. This round, mummy wake daddy up from the bed to switch on our room's light. Luckily, you are a good boy, you stop crying. Mummy then nurse you and thank god, very fast, you are in your dreamland. Phew, what a relief.

Adult Gathering and KiDs PaRtY

Friday night, when Daddy and Mummy having our seafood buffet dinner at Traders Hotel, i received sms from Aunty Angeline, she's inviting us to her condo on Saturday. Aunty Angeline did invite us to their condo few months back and this time, it's Uncle Ben's turn to have mini party with his friend in their condo. Without any doubt, i replied her with "YES, we are going!" At the same time, Aunty Angeline also cook french bean porridge for you. She's a good host, right? Not forgetting to prepare food for the baby too :)

We try to let you have as much sleep as possible, however, you wake up around 4:30pm and refuse to sleep no matter what we do. You must be knowing that we are going out. Yes, mummy did inform you that we are going to Aunty Angeline's house. After Ah Ma bathed and put on the clothes that mummy choosed, you refuse to let anyone else carried you, besides mummy. Ah Ma gotta trick you so that you let them carry you so that mummy can get ready your "kai kai" bag.

We reached Aunty Angeline's condo around 6:40pm. Wow, this round, there is more kids than the previous party. Last round, most are babies and this time , most are toddlers. Then, mummy feed you with the porridge cook by chef Angeline. But, you can't sit properly and concentrate eating your dinner. You only ate a few of the porridge, so daddy decided to give you some milk instead. You drink the milk in your fastest speed then want to get down and play with the toys. Thank goodness, you seems ok hanging around with other kids. But of course, there is some small incident (kids fighting for toys) but no big issue, all of you behave well, when us - the parents, try to distract you guys with other toys, all of you easily get distracted. Bravo to all babies!

And for me and daddy, we both enjoy the food. Especially, mummy! I love the pizza, the salad,walnut tart, and...pork rendang! hmm...maybe i can ask Aunty Angeline to get her MIL to cook this for your upcoming birthday party.

Oh ya, we also take group photo. The group photo split into 2 session, one for mummy and babies, the other is for daddy and babies. You know what, you super excited during the photo taking session. While everyone try to squeeze into the camera screen, you kept yelling screaming at the top of your voice excitedly. **will post those pics once i receive it from Uncle Ben** You really enjoy yourself very very much! Mummy also let you try to sit in Evan koh koh's bumbo seat. Thank god, luckily mummy didn't get one for you, because the seat is justttt nice for you, no additional space.

We stayed in Aunty Angeline's condo for about 2 hrs plus, then we saw you kept rubbing your eyes, but the moment mummy put you on the floor with other kids, you super excited again. But, daddy said we gotta make a move before you become too cranky.

As soon as we get in the car, you ask for feed. And mummy nurse you in the car, and....within 3 mins, you in your dreamland...ZZzzzzzzz.

To all, don't think that my baby Kelvin will continue to sleep when we reached home. As soon as the car stop at our apt lobby, somehow rather, little Kelvin can sense it, he opened his eyes BIG and he seems like fully recharged his battery.

France Taipei photo choosing session

Saturday was a busy day for daddy and mummy. Ah Kong and Ah Ma went to Ipoh,so we gotta take care you . Today we have appointment with France Taipei to choose pics.

We were a bit late for the appointment as we need to make sure you fall asleep as Ee Poh alone wont be able to take care of you. Daddy and mummy reached France Taiper around 2:10pm. After a while, they finally able to locate the folder where the photographer, Paul, stored all your pics.

When mummy first glane through all the pics, how i wish i will buy all of them. But, no way, because it's RM10 per pcs. You took toal of 33 pcs. Daddy gotta be the bad person, because mummy every single photo also wish to keep. So, mummy will sort like "err....this one keep for second consideration..." Whereas, for daddy, he will just "ok!", or "nope!".And after few round of selection, we narrowed down to 13 pcs.

Too bad, we won't be able to get the real pic, need to wait til they call us. We quickly pay and go back as we afraid you may wake up and Ee Poh unable to take care you alone because you are getting more and more active nowadays.

And, tonight, we are going to Aunty Angeline's condo for party.

What is my choice?

Being tagged by Aunty Angeline on this topic...What do i want to be, a Stay At Home Mom (SAHM) or Full time working mom (FTWM). Well, well, it's a very tough yet interesting thing to think over.

I always envy those lady who doesn't need to work, can go for shopping anytime they want. But, in order to have such luxury lifestyle, you need to have a super strong "banker" behind, supporting your daily expenses....which i don't have. Sob Sob.

Between SAHM and FTWM, i will choose to be FTWM, even though i wish to be SAHM. Baby, let mummy tell you why i choose to be FTWM and not SAHM.

Mummy would like to be SAHM, by doing so, i can spend my time together with you, enjoy each growing stage and moment together with you. This is something that money can't buy. But...if mummy not working, then mummy wont have money to buy toys, clothes, bla bla things for you.....By the way, I did submit my resume to daddy many many times, apply for SAHM position, but everytime get rejected, so no choice, ended up, i need to find another job elsewhere.

If i be FTWM, which is what i am now, then i will miss out lots of sweet moment with you. Everyday when i pick you up from nursery, the teacher will tell me what you did in the school, and from the way they spoke to me, i can feel the sweet moment. You lighten up their day, somehow.

So how, SAHM or FTWM?

The answer is...FTWM. Why?

1.First of all, i don't think i am qualify to me a SAHM, because i don't like to cook, and i am not a good cook. Why, read this and u will know :)

2.I will be financially independence, so i can buy whatever thing that i want for you and myself.I love shopping, so i need to have my own money....(currently i uses the supplementary card from daddy)..hahaha

3. Get to know more friends....get updated with latest news, info, bla bla....so i will be a modern mom, instead of "kampung" look mom. When you walk beside me, you will feel proud, coz your mummy look modern and trendy!

4. I will have more topic to talk to you and daddy, rather than discussing with you what you want to eat for tomorrow's breakfast; telling daddy today the fish at the market not fresh , bla bla....and when you tell me about latest technology, i can share my knowledge with you instead of will give you blank look.

Agree? So, baby, don't get angry with mummy for choosing to be FTWM

Oops, instead of 3, i wrote 4....
~~~Instructions~~~Here’s how it works:
1. So easy peasy, if you were given a choice, would you be a SAHM or FTWM? Just provide 3 darn good reasons.
2. Include your post link to the list below
and Finally,
3. Tag another three mommies

1. Immomsdaughter prefers to be a SAHM
2. Miche prefers to be a SAHM too.
3. SYH prefers to be a PTWM
4. Everydayhealy prefers to be a SAHM
5. Angeleyes prefers to be WAHM
6. Giddy Tiger prefers to be an SAHM
7. Jin Miin prefer to be a PTWM
8. Angie perfers to be a PTWM

Hmm...who to tag now?
Lay See - tell us your choice, it's me to tag you again :)
Poh Kien - first tag from me huh

Sleeping in your baby cot

For the past 3 night, mummy tried to let you sleep back into your own cot, but failed!You've been become daddy and mummy's bedmate since May. And mummy feel that it's time to train you to sleep back in your cot.

After you fall asleep in my arm after night feed, mummy will hold you in my arm for about 5 mins, to make sure you really fall asleep, then i will put you into your cot.....you will actually continue to sleep but it only last for around 20 mins or so, then you will wake up, look around, and if you don't see daddy or mummy within your "touchable" range, you will start sobbing. And here come daddy to rescue you. Daddy will then carry you out from your cot, put you in between us, then u will very fast go into your sweet dreamland. Maybe i need to jump into your cot, sleep with you for few times, to let you get use to sleep back in your cot huh. But.....u think your cot can take my weight? no way man!hahaha!

I guess i need to try to make you sleep in your cot on Friday and Saturday night, why only Fri and Sat night? Because i don't have to work on the next day..so mummy can afford to "play" the baby cot carry in carry out game with you at night.

Anyone, any tips, pls share!!! Wish me luck!

When to stop breastfeeding?

Since day 1 i started breatfeeding, lots of people kept asking me "when i plan to stop breastfeed my baby" And now, my baby is 8 mths plus and by this Sat, he is 9 months! Time flies.

To those mummy who miss the opportunity o breastfeed your baby, you should do that for your next baby, because you miss the chance to enjoy the sweetest moment with your baby.

My Newborn baby!

Newborn baby? Me have newborn baby again?
No no.....it's my little Kelvin baby, suddenly want to be my newborn baby again!

After full moon, you no longer want us to carry you in our arm. Instead, you wants us to carry you with the "standing" position. But of course, at that time, you are too young to be carried that way, so we need to use another hand to support your neck. Maybe by carrying you this way, you can see the surrounding better compare to at sleeping position.

However, recently, you want me to carry you in my arm again, especially at night. Usually, we will sleep side by side and i nursed you, but, nowadays,you changes your style. I have to carry you in my arm, else you will refuse to sleep. This is a bit tiring as your weight is not newborn weight anymore:)

Yesterday when daddy saw me holding you in my arm, daddy shake his head .....but deep in my heart, i enjoy this moment very much. As i am a working mummy, i don't have much time alone with you, so every night, this is the moment where 2 of us stay close to each other.

This morning, when we were on the way to nursery, you lay on my chest and i asked you "Vin boy, you want mummy to hugh you like new born baby?" and you look at me as if telling me "yes, mummy, i would like you to hug me like u hugged me while i'm just borned" I feel so sweet holding you in my arm. I love you, baby!