Battle with Stomach Flu ~ It's almost coming to the end

After fighting with stomach flu for close to 1 week, to be exact, 6 days, it's finally almost coming to the end. Yesterday the whole day, there isn't any vomit or diarrhea reported by the school teacher, and also no vomit or diarrhea at home. But yet, i still dare not say it's completely ok, as i still prefer to put you under observation. In fact, you stated to have back your regular intake of milk powder at school. You has been asking for milk in the past few days, and we always give you the standard answer, "No, you can only drink soya bean milk"

As soon as you back from school, you asked for vitagen. We has been saying big NO NO to you for the past few days when you are fighting with stomach flu. And finally, on last night, we let you enjoy it.

After a while, you requested for fruit. You must be missing all your favorite fruits so much.
K: mummy, can i have fruit?
M: **hesitate for a while** Yes, sure.
K: Then, can i eat strawberry?
M: ** oops** oh, sweetie, nope, u can't take strawberry yet
K: mummy, what about orange, i see there is so many orange in the fridge.
M: oh, sweetie, u can't eat orange either. What about apple, u can take apple.
K: ok, anything also can. ** since your two requests being rejected, so you just agree with what i suggested**

So happily you agree to go with apple.

And it's not the end of the story yet, by 10pm, you said that you are hungry. So, what to do?? Since daddy and keke also feeling hungry, so we went out for light supper at the koay teow thng shop outside of our house. After food, i asked you to sleep and your respond is "sleep without milk?" My gosh, you just had your bee hoon soup, and you still need milk. LOL! Obviously, your are on the way of recovering and claiming back all your appetite. In order not to disappoint you, i make a small cup of milk for you and happily you went to bed after the milk.

Stomach flu, Day #3

Last night was a good night for all of us, no fuss from you when we wake you up 2 times for medicine. And this morning you wake up around 7:30am while all of us still in our sweet dream. Thought everything is ok, however, you throw out again while we are out for breakfast. Sigh...poor girl. Again, you told us that you are hungry and want to eat wan tan mee. Oh, a big NO NO, and mummy tried to persuade you to go for porridge. Luckily you are such a good girl, you agree to have porridge but, you told me that i MUST buy you wan tan mee when you fully recover.

Breakfast settled. Then we went to QBM after breakfast as keke is having his weekly Taekwondo class there. Another headache, where to go for lunch after keke's class?? Think think think...where can we have porridge...think think think..tadaaaaa, the nearby 上海鼎 restaurant. You enjoy the porridge very much and keke ordered honey lemon and you insisted that you want to have few sip. At first, we dont allow you to have, but you kept insist. So at last, i let you try some and deep in my heart keep pray that you wont have stomach pain. True enough, while daddy paying the bill, you told me that you have stomach upset. Luckily our house is nearby and as soon as we reached home, you rushed to toilet to release yourself.

And tonight, where to go for dinner? Both you and keke said want to go back to De Happy seafood restaurant for teochew porridge. Hope there will be no more vomit from you after tonight.

Unwelcome guest - Stomach flu. Day #1 and #2

While picking up keke at the school on Friday, i received a call from your kindy teacher saying that you had sudden fever. I was shocked hearing that as in the morning when i dropped you to school, you seems ok.Thus, when she asked whether can she give you a dose of fever medicine or not, i told teacher, "nope, it's ok, i will pick her up shortly" Deep in my heart, i hope that you are not having stomach flu, but my instinct told me that it's high chance that you are attacked by stomach flu.

According to school teacher, you throw out twice in the school, first time is after afternoon nap and second time is before dinner. Since you are not havving good appetitie after that, so your dinner is just 2 pieces of biscuit. You seems a bit not so active when i picked you up, i guess probably you feel tired after vomit.

You didn't take anything while we went out for dinner, you only drink one glass of barley and awhile later you complained that stomach not feeling well. Quickly, we went home, but instead of poo, you vomited out the barley that you had during dinner. After a while, you asked for biscuit, and with heavy heart, we have to give you since you are not having any food since 3pm and you in fact vomited 3 times, your stomach must be very empty. Luckily no vomit after that.

Thought that everything is over as you asked for pan mee as lunch on Saturday. however, on our way to QBM for movie, you vomited in the car. Sigh. Means, it's not over though, there is still some toxic in your stomach that need to clear out. Again, after vomit, you said you are ok. So, we still proceed for our movie plan.

Everything seems ok until 5:20pm. On our way out to drop keke for his swimming class , you vomited in the car. We turned back home and clean you up as well as cleaning the car. Thought everything is over, but again, i am wrong. After a while, you throut out again in the car, but this time i am well prepared, i quickly gave you a plastic bag and guess what...i saw some yellowish fluid coming out from your mouth, and without second doubt, we bring you to see doctor. As Saturday is off day for Adventist hospital, so we need to go to Emergency Room and luckily Dr Khaw already there treating other patients thus we just need to wait for a while for our turn.

When Dr Khaw checked at you, and as soon as he heard mummy saying there is yellowish fluid out from your mouth, he said that fluid coming from gallbladder. Oh no....meaning the infection is very very bad. As both doctor and us do not wish to go for admission, so we decided to have the treatment at home. However, doctor recommended that you need to have one injection to stop the vomit. As a result, we have many types of medicine for you:-

• Injection to stop the vomit
• Motilium
• Probiotic
• Unasyn antibiotic
• Paracetamol
• ORS

 Gosh, all of us has concern, how to let you take so many medicine at once, surely you will throw out all the medicine. Thus, the recommendation is, give you the medicine separately with the interval of 30 minutes. And the only food that you can take during this period is white bread and porridge. After the painful injection, you making noise saying you are hungry, which is good sign as you didn't ask for food almost 2 days. Suddenly, i am out of idea where to eat and after a while, this place finally come to my mind, De Happy seafood restaurant as they serve teochew porridge.
Wow, you have a real good appetite, you ate 1.5 bowls of PLAIN porridge. Daddy and mummy a bit hesitate to let you eat so much, but seeing you eating the plain porridge happily, so we keep pray that no vomit after that. Phew....everything ok, no vomit after the porridge.

Before we call off the night, mummy told you that we will be waking you up middle of the night for fever medicine. Need to pre-alert you so that you wont be cranky at middle of the night while we wake you up.

骂孩子后的心酸反思........

好讨厌自己那无法放开,放松的态度.


孩子们竟然偷偷的繼承了我一些不好的基因:-没有坚持心 & 粗心
辛好,他们也同时偷偷的繼承了老公良好的基因:-好脾气,健忘

我的脾气不是很好,也是个很没有耐心的人,深受其害的多是我老公.接下来就是两个孩子.哈哈!
虽然,我常常讲,别 给孩子压力,让他们自由发挥,但是, 活在这现实的社会里, 有是我们会搞得自己很不理智. 常常告诉自己, 教育好自己的孩子,不要想着他/她以后会是什么家, 毕竟行行出状元嘛. 太过逼孩子们去帮自己完成自己无法达到的梦想, 对孩子们是很不公 平. 但是,自己就是放不下, 一直深怕孩子功课追不上..

一向来, 我也知道他字体不端, 但不至于很难看到无法读. 但是, 现在国民型华小老师很在意同学们的字体. 第一次与他级任老师见面,第一个评论就是字体不端, 我还很礼貌的回答老师, 叫老师多多帮忙纠正  我猜, 老师内心深处一定痛骂我. 晚上回来,我骂了他一顿,他低着头.
 
昨晚, 我又因为儿子字体不端而痛骂他一场. 他没哭,眼泪一直在眼里打滚,只是俩只眼睛一直看着我. 已不是第一次了, 每次都警告他,若从犯, 我会狠狠的处罚他. 但, 每次都没.

每次,骂完后,深夜,,孩子睡了,我感觉我的孩子真可怜,不懂刚刚我那么骂他, 他心里会很难受吗?我心里很难受,很难受. 有时, 我会伤心的落泪, 很懊悔, 为什么我要那么骂他. 毕竟, 他还小, 当我还是他那年龄时, 我还在迷迷糊糊的学着ABC. 有时, 我会在孩子们熟睡时在他们那可爱的小脸,亲一亲,何必在事情发生了才懊悔, 为什么不学会控制自己.? 为什么还总是抱怨孩子记不住家长和老 师的话呢? 为什么? 为什么? 为什么?

辛好,孩子们还蛮健忘, 睡醒就忘了刚被我痛骂. 几天后, 老毛病又来了. 哪我呢, 也是老毛病重犯,骂骂骂.  但,我坚持,只骂, 不打. 要打, 我也是用手打. 若,忍无可忍, 我就用手打桌子,练个铁沙掌…. 哈哈!

有时, 我在想,孩子们去上学,会不会像我们去上班那样有压力? 我们是否应该放下身段,站在他们的立场上想?其实孩子们想法很单纯,要的也不多,不像我们大人那么复杂. 为什么我不简简单单的教育他们? 无论我们怎样对待他们,他们总可以以一颗最纯净的心来对待我们, 孩子们,你们是上帝送给我的最佳礼物!!!!孩子们,希望你们可以体会到妈咪的用心良苦. 别怪我哦!

我是正版马来西亚学生

我在厨房里忙东忙西, 洗完这这, 就洗那,,,,像只脱了线的风争飞来飞去.

当我在拿着烧水时,发现女儿竟然在没声之下,站在我身后. 第一反应就是骂她, 因为, 我常告诉她别站在我身后, 尤其在厨房.  猜猜看她怎样回答我....

她说, "妈咪, 妳marah 我, 我会很 sad 的," 然后呢, 她竟然拼出, s..a...d, sad. 哇, 我真的没想到这女儿会用三个语言構建句子. 

所以嘛...你说, 我是不是该表扬她, 懂得善用所学的语言, 哈哈!

可爱的女儿

  女儿不耍脾气时是蛮可爱的.

最近, 不懂从哪里学来, 一直叫我教她如何一眼开, 一眼眨, 起初,她无法做到, 但这几天, 她竟然可以掌握到这技巧.

还有, 当她看到我穿比较有色彩的裙子, 她就会要求我, 不穿了,别丢,留给她以后穿. 好几次, 我说, 女儿, 若妳以后穿上妈咪现在穿的裙子, 肯定会被朋友笑. 她竟然理直气壮的说, "不会,朋友不会笑我的". 哈哈!咱们就看妳以后敢不敢穿妈咪留给妳的裙子.

有时, 她还会穿我的高跟鞋在家里走来走去,好怕她拌倒.
带她去买鞋,更头疼,她总要找高跟鞋,不然的话就是颜色奇奇怪怪, 很难配搭衣服那种. 我得费很长时间说服她, 但蛮好玩的.

买衣呢...就不要那种保守的, 衣领高高的- 不要; 袖子长长的- 不要; 颜色暗淡的- 不要.

吃东西呢, 不能一下子避她吃太多,不然的话, 待会儿, 我就有得受, 她会连本带利的呼虏哗啦的吐出来. 哎,我又没空了.

读书, 哇...好挑战, 她不喜欢. 教了一小时,骂了半小时, 待会儿,她可以将所学的忘了一干二净. 超棒! 我得安慰自己,无所谓, 给她时间, 行行出状元嘛,


但, 还是很感谢上帝给了我这宝贝女儿. 妈咪爱妳.