The value of a gem is in the eyes of the beholder. My boy has his own unique-ness which is easy going and over energetic, he has endless energy ! My girl might not carry any good value in certain peoples' eye but to me, she is unique, she has her own personality and she has the innocence-ness which a kid should have.
No doubt academic performance is important, but to me, i prefer good attitude rather than good academy performance. You may not be the top students in study, but, i am proud of you. Darling, "just believe in yourself!", "success all depends on the second letter, U!"
I keep remind both of them, don't overjoy or upset on your current performance, life is full of unexpected challenges.
Boy, i am proud of you, and good job on your academic performance! 棒!! However, i have one condition, remember rule of thumb #1, "DON'T impose too much pressure on yourself ! "
Girl, your result not as good as keke but i know you have done your very best! "Keep it up! 加油!! 输在起跑点无所谓,最重要是, 你要和赢者一起达到终点."
Showing posts with label Kelvin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kelvin. Show all posts
Monday, April 18, 2016
Saturday, January 11, 2014
可爱又可恶的哥妹俩
君子报仇千年不晚， 这可是对的。
妹妹一直喜欢作弄哥哥，然后哥哥一直以来都是忍气吞声。。。但是，人总是有极限的嘛。就在有一晚，哥哥终于决定报复。
哥哥很奸诈的从bathroom 走出来，很“友善”的请妹妹刷牙去，还告知妹妹他帮了妹妹准备牙刷，牙膏。妹妹对这善良的哥哥从没怀疑过。
一会儿，妹妹从bathroom 跑出来，问，为什么牙膏那么辣？？？！！！
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。
可恶的哥哥笑个不停，很神气的说，“是我将妈咪的牙膏放在你牙刷上，谁叫你常常弄我！！”
那可怜的妹妹，听了哥哥那么讲，也没反驳。头低低的走进 bathroom 去。我和老公俩完全没介入他们的纠纷，我们在暗暗地笑。他们弄两真的是可爱又可恶的哥妹俩！
妹妹一直喜欢作弄哥哥，然后哥哥一直以来都是忍气吞声。。。但是，人总是有极限的嘛。就在有一晚，哥哥终于决定报复。
哥哥很奸诈的从bathroom 走出来，很“友善”的请妹妹刷牙去，还告知妹妹他帮了妹妹准备牙刷，牙膏。妹妹对这善良的哥哥从没怀疑过。
一会儿，妹妹从bathroom 跑出来，问，为什么牙膏那么辣？？？！！！
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。
可恶的哥哥笑个不停，很神气的说，“是我将妈咪的牙膏放在你牙刷上，谁叫你常常弄我！！”
那可怜的妹妹，听了哥哥那么讲，也没反驳。头低低的走进 bathroom 去。我和老公俩完全没介入他们的纠纷，我们在暗暗地笑。他们弄两真的是可爱又可恶的哥妹俩！
Thursday, January 2, 2014
开课了！
给儿子。。。
很多人会觉得我太保护孩子，孩子已经是二年级学生了，我还坚持要在开学第一天仍然到学校去。I am who i am, you can choose to accept or reject me, however, i am still me !
身为职业妈咪，我已失去了一起与孩子成长的机会，现在若我仍不放下工作，陪一陪孩子，恐怕我会后悔。我记得，去年当孩子上一年级时，一个朋友讲，我们只可能有这三天的机会待在学校倍孩子，下一次再来，可能就是孩子毕业的时候了。讲得蛮有道理。虽然，我时不时会到孩子的学校去，但在不同时候和情况之下，毕竟心情是不一样的。
今天，我仍然很开心，因，当我看到孩子开心的笑容时，我觉得，小小的牺牲( 学校好热，我简直是汗流浃背）是值得的。
宝贝，二年级了，加油！！！
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给女儿。。
妹妹，K2 了，是学校里的大姐姐，要乖乖哦！ 妈咪没到学校去，因妈咪知道学校里的老师会照顾你。哥哥就不同，因哥哥到国小，凡事都自己处理。
宝贝，幼二了，加油！今年是你在幼儿园的最后一年，明年你就会跟哥哥一起上学去！
很多人会觉得我太保护孩子，孩子已经是二年级学生了，我还坚持要在开学第一天仍然到学校去。I am who i am, you can choose to accept or reject me, however, i am still me !
身为职业妈咪，我已失去了一起与孩子成长的机会，现在若我仍不放下工作，陪一陪孩子，恐怕我会后悔。我记得，去年当孩子上一年级时，一个朋友讲，我们只可能有这三天的机会待在学校倍孩子，下一次再来，可能就是孩子毕业的时候了。讲得蛮有道理。虽然，我时不时会到孩子的学校去，但在不同时候和情况之下，毕竟心情是不一样的。
今天，我仍然很开心，因，当我看到孩子开心的笑容时，我觉得，小小的牺牲( 学校好热，我简直是汗流浃背）是值得的。
宝贝，二年级了，加油！！！
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给女儿。。
妹妹，K2 了，是学校里的大姐姐，要乖乖哦！ 妈咪没到学校去，因妈咪知道学校里的老师会照顾你。哥哥就不同，因哥哥到国小，凡事都自己处理。
宝贝，幼二了，加油！今年是你在幼儿园的最后一年，明年你就会跟哥哥一起上学去！
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Foam Party at Hord Rock Hotel
Being invited by an old friend of mine to Hard Rock Hotel foam party, when i told the kids about the plan, both of them looking forward to the event.
It's my fault, i gave the kids wrong info, i told them "the party will be in the pool and the whole pool will be filled up with foam". However, when we reached the pool, realized that the event is not in the pool, but it's beside the pool.
The hotel actually set up the foam party by the beach and keep pumping lots of foam into the pool for the kids to play. In fact, the session being separated into kids and adult. Kids session from 5 til 7pm; whereas adult session is from 7pm onwards. At the entrance of the foam pool, there's an arch shape water spray for the kids to clean themselves after they being covered by foams. Kelvin enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel, however, Kaitlyn doesn't seems enjoying herself. We managed to make her play with the foam for awhile before letting her to play in the real pool with water.
It seems like after awhile, all kids get tired with the foam and they decided to deep into the pool. So, for us, we just need to keep our eyes on the kids as they are jumping in and out from the water. Finally, the lucky draw session start. Both Vanessa and Joel names being called out and they won small souvenir. Poor Kelvin and Kaitlyn, they get nothing..but glad that both of them enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel.
It's tiring, hungry......after get the kids showered, we went to Penang Swimming Club for dinner. Ooops, wrong decision, there are club function and the kitchen busy serving food to them. So, we waited for almost 45 minutes before we can fill up our tummy. By the time we finish our dinner, it's already supper time, 9:20pm. We ended up the day by saying goodbye, see you to each others with 4 grumpy look kids.
It's my fault, i gave the kids wrong info, i told them "the party will be in the pool and the whole pool will be filled up with foam". However, when we reached the pool, realized that the event is not in the pool, but it's beside the pool.
It seems like after awhile, all kids get tired with the foam and they decided to deep into the pool. So, for us, we just need to keep our eyes on the kids as they are jumping in and out from the water. Finally, the lucky draw session start. Both Vanessa and Joel names being called out and they won small souvenir. Poor Kelvin and Kaitlyn, they get nothing..but glad that both of them enjoy playing with Vanessa and Joel.
It's tiring, hungry......after get the kids showered, we went to Penang Swimming Club for dinner. Ooops, wrong decision, there are club function and the kitchen busy serving food to them. So, we waited for almost 45 minutes before we can fill up our tummy. By the time we finish our dinner, it's already supper time, 9:20pm. We ended up the day by saying goodbye, see you to each others with 4 grumpy look kids.
Sunday, December 1, 2013
弟子规小状元
On 1st Dec, we went to Han Chiang Secondary School for the 小状元 certification. As you only taking one small part which is 弟子规, thus, it's consider the easiest as compare to the others who are taking 弟子规, 三字经，百孝经 and many more.
We reached the hall close to 9am and it is already crowded with people. Each of the participants will need to go through a one to one test with the invigilator. The Invigilator will have choice of asking the student to do the recitation sequentially or randomly. This is to ensure the kid know the end to end of the whole concept of what they have learned.
While waiting for the rest to complete the exam and also for result, the thoughtful organizer do arrange activities to keep the kids occupied. After around 2 hours, finally the result is out. Congratulations , my boy!!! He passed the 小状元 certification. Well, it's not the end yet. Each of them need to go though the 状元门，a sign of them being certified 小状元.
The whole session finally ended by 12 noon. It's tiring but yet a fun day for the kid!
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Leaving home with heavy heart
Dear babies,
All the while i am looking forward for a business trip. When i get the opportunity, without second thought i accept it. However, after awhile after i settle down, my inner heart kept asking me whether should i go or not. After checking with daddy, he very supportive, so i continue with it.
In less than 2 weeks time, to be exact, in 10 days time, i will be flying to Limerick and will only be back home after 24 days. I never be apart with both of you for that long, and i never let both of you of my sight for more than 24 hours. This gonna be a big challenge for me.
For this round, daddy will need to do all the exam revision with both of you as keke's exam fall on the week right after i left. As for meimei, the exam is on end of Oct, so it depends, either during mummy's final week in Limerick or the week right after mummy reached home.
I was thinking how to tell both of you about my long duration business trip, however, daddy informally inform both of you and as expected, both of you do not show any supportive reaction.
Babies, of course, i also wish that the business trip can be shorten. Mummy hope that both of you will listen and corporate with daddy while i am away.
Also, for this year, i will missed the birthday celebration for three of you, keke, meimei and daddy.
All the while i am looking forward for a business trip. When i get the opportunity, without second thought i accept it. However, after awhile after i settle down, my inner heart kept asking me whether should i go or not. After checking with daddy, he very supportive, so i continue with it.
In less than 2 weeks time, to be exact, in 10 days time, i will be flying to Limerick and will only be back home after 24 days. I never be apart with both of you for that long, and i never let both of you of my sight for more than 24 hours. This gonna be a big challenge for me.
For this round, daddy will need to do all the exam revision with both of you as keke's exam fall on the week right after i left. As for meimei, the exam is on end of Oct, so it depends, either during mummy's final week in Limerick or the week right after mummy reached home.
I was thinking how to tell both of you about my long duration business trip, however, daddy informally inform both of you and as expected, both of you do not show any supportive reaction.
Keke , you told me that you will definitely sad as you wont be able to see me for so long;
Meimei , you asked me why can't i only go away for 1 or 2 days.
Babies, of course, i also wish that the business trip can be shorten. Mummy hope that both of you will listen and corporate with daddy while i am away.
Also, for this year, i will missed the birthday celebration for three of you, keke, meimei and daddy.
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
The contradictory me
My boy very sticky to me, and sometimes, i really wish that i am tough enough to turn him down and leave him alone to train him to be more independent.
For unknown reason, he cried when we drop him to daycare, and this lasted for almost 1 month until i almost wanna seek for child psychiatrist's help. And thank goodness, he decided to end the crying all by himself. And now, he is back to his happy go lucky behavior.
Yesterday was his school's sport day and this is his first time attending sport day. He being selected by his teacher to represent the class to participate in the game. When he told me about this, i am as excited as him, and in fact, i am more excited than him, LOL! I applied leave few days before the event.
On Monday, Kelvin come back and tell me the schedule for the next day, and he said in fact, i an just drop him at USM Stadium and pick him up around 11:30am. In fact, he doesn't expect me to be there to see him participating the game, When i heard of his plan, suddenly i had a mixed feeling, happy and sad. Happy that my boy is now feeling comfortable to be with his friends and school teachers; happy that my boy is slowly getting more independent; sad that my boy is growing up; sad that my boy soon will no longer need me to protect him.
At the end, i told him that i would like to be there to see his participating in the game, and also i already promised aunty Doreen that i will be there, so i need to keep my promise to be there on his sport day. Delightedly he said he is happy that i can be there. Actually, not only me, daddy and also mei mei also went to USM stadium to give him our morale support.
So, should i feel happy or sad when i see my boy getting more independent???
For unknown reason, he cried when we drop him to daycare, and this lasted for almost 1 month until i almost wanna seek for child psychiatrist's help. And thank goodness, he decided to end the crying all by himself. And now, he is back to his happy go lucky behavior.
Yesterday was his school's sport day and this is his first time attending sport day. He being selected by his teacher to represent the class to participate in the game. When he told me about this, i am as excited as him, and in fact, i am more excited than him, LOL! I applied leave few days before the event.
On Monday, Kelvin come back and tell me the schedule for the next day, and he said in fact, i an just drop him at USM Stadium and pick him up around 11:30am. In fact, he doesn't expect me to be there to see him participating the game, When i heard of his plan, suddenly i had a mixed feeling, happy and sad. Happy that my boy is now feeling comfortable to be with his friends and school teachers; happy that my boy is slowly getting more independent; sad that my boy is growing up; sad that my boy soon will no longer need me to protect him.
At the end, i told him that i would like to be there to see his participating in the game, and also i already promised aunty Doreen that i will be there, so i need to keep my promise to be there on his sport day. Delightedly he said he is happy that i can be there. Actually, not only me, daddy and also mei mei also went to USM stadium to give him our morale support.
So, should i feel happy or sad when i see my boy getting more independent???
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
oops...teeth in the rice
You kept complaining that one of your teeth is kinda shaky and you wonder when it will drop off by itself, and we kept assuring you that eventually the milk teeth will fall of by itself, it's just matter of time.
While you are having your dinner, i went to do the laundry as usual, and suddenly you came to me with some blood in your mouth, telling me that you teeth dropped while you are biting the meat. Luckily you are not scared by the blood, i guess could be we brought you to dentist for few times, and you are not afraid of seeing blood in the mouth. Quickly i asked you to seek for daddy's help to gargle salt water to clean your mouth. Happily you told us that finally your shaking teeth is out. LOL!
Bravo, my boy!!!
While you are having your dinner, i went to do the laundry as usual, and suddenly you came to me with some blood in your mouth, telling me that you teeth dropped while you are biting the meat. Luckily you are not scared by the blood, i guess could be we brought you to dentist for few times, and you are not afraid of seeing blood in the mouth. Quickly i asked you to seek for daddy's help to gargle salt water to clean your mouth. Happily you told us that finally your shaking teeth is out. LOL!
Bravo, my boy!!!
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Happy birthday mummy
Again, this year mummy's birthday fall on weekday and somemore it's Wednesday whereby it's a busy day for daddy and me. Daddy will need to attend this usual weekly conference call and for us, we need to stay home waiting for weekly cleaner to clean our house. So, quickly, we had a simple dinner in Queensbay mall.
When we reached home, both of you busy searching high and low in the entire house, looking for whatever things that you guys can put in the box and present to me as present. LOL! After a while you guys finally presented me with a box of toys and also some book as my birthday present.
Both of you are so sweet, love u love u :)
Who said birthday present must be expensive and tangible? The love from the kids are priceless!!!
When we reached home, both of you busy searching high and low in the entire house, looking for whatever things that you guys can put in the box and present to me as present. LOL! After a while you guys finally presented me with a box of toys and also some book as my birthday present.
Both of you are so sweet, love u love u :)
Who said birthday present must be expensive and tangible? The love from the kids are priceless!!!
Saturday, June 8, 2013
家长教师会面日
盼望了许久的家长教师会面日总算来临了. 6月8日,懒懒的起床,然后带着大宝和小宝浩浩荡荡的到光华小学去. 到达学校,大约 10am, 还好, 不是很多人. 等了大约十五分钟, 终于到我们了.
一坐下来, 看到大宝的全级排名,我差点从椅子上跌下来.天啊, 就只因为数学的粗心,大宝竟然排名在千里之外. 现在, 老工终于认同我的想法, 一分也不能轻易失去.
之前, 我因大宝的粗心,白白浪费了几分而碎碎念,老工还教训了我,讲我为什么那么看不开,区区的三分罢了嘛,何必把孩子给教训一顿,现在,他可了解我的用心良苦了.哈哈!
那么,至于大宝呢,可爱天真活泼又天真无邪的他竟然以为排名越大是越好,我可被他气得不知如何是好,但,回头想,既然是个无法改变的事实,那么就用小孩子的看法来解释给大宝听. 他是懂非懂的告诉我, 他下学期要和会考得更好, 听了,我当然开心. 但, 内心深处在流泪, 我心疼孩子那么小,就得面对分数的纠纷. 为什么,我国的教育制度那么古板,外国的教育根本不在乎小孩子考试成绩, 它们在乎的是孩子们的教育水准,哎,没办法,谁叫我没本事让孩子上国际学校,认命吧,
老师也很奇怪为什么大宝数学考得那么差, 我也只好无言相对的看着老师. 老师啊,我内心在滴血,你按到了我最伤的伤口,哈哈! 基本上,老师对大宝蛮好,没什么投诉,不懂是老师讲得太累了,还是我的大宝很乖?? 我想,该是后者啦, 让自己开心一点,不行吗? 老师有在叮咛大宝要好好写字, 不要在画符. 还有,老师问我大宝最近还有没闹情趣, 老师竟然还记得大宝在学校闹情绪,好羞哦. 幸好,大宝一渡过考试恐惧感,没闹情绪了....
拿了成绩,大伙儿再次浩浩荡荡去吃早+中餐.
宝贝,记得努力做好每一天喔!妈咪,爹地支持你!!!
一坐下来, 看到大宝的全级排名,我差点从椅子上跌下来.天啊, 就只因为数学的粗心,大宝竟然排名在千里之外. 现在, 老工终于认同我的想法, 一分也不能轻易失去.
之前, 我因大宝的粗心,白白浪费了几分而碎碎念,老工还教训了我,讲我为什么那么看不开,区区的三分罢了嘛,何必把孩子给教训一顿,现在,他可了解我的用心良苦了.哈哈!
那么,至于大宝呢,可爱天真活泼又天真无邪的他竟然以为排名越大是越好,我可被他气得不知如何是好,但,回头想,既然是个无法改变的事实,那么就用小孩子的看法来解释给大宝听. 他是懂非懂的告诉我, 他下学期要和会考得更好, 听了,我当然开心. 但, 内心深处在流泪, 我心疼孩子那么小,就得面对分数的纠纷. 为什么,我国的教育制度那么古板,外国的教育根本不在乎小孩子考试成绩, 它们在乎的是孩子们的教育水准,哎,没办法,谁叫我没本事让孩子上国际学校,认命吧,
老师也很奇怪为什么大宝数学考得那么差, 我也只好无言相对的看着老师. 老师啊,我内心在滴血,你按到了我最伤的伤口,哈哈! 基本上,老师对大宝蛮好,没什么投诉,不懂是老师讲得太累了,还是我的大宝很乖?? 我想,该是后者啦, 让自己开心一点,不行吗? 老师有在叮咛大宝要好好写字, 不要在画符. 还有,老师问我大宝最近还有没闹情趣, 老师竟然还记得大宝在学校闹情绪,好羞哦. 幸好,大宝一渡过考试恐惧感,没闹情绪了....
拿了成绩,大伙儿再次浩浩荡荡去吃早+中餐.
宝贝,记得努力做好每一天喔!妈咪,爹地支持你!!!
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Gossip is a fearful thing
Gossip not only happen in adult world, it also happen in children world! And it's just like the "Passing message" game, the whole thing will get truncated and lots of spices will get added into the story.
On 5/21 Tuesday, when i picked up my boy, immediately, he told me there were two incidents happened in the school on that day.
First incident : Kid get kidnapped by stranger at the back entrance of the school. Wow, this really scary though! Hope this is not true. Flipped through the newspapers on next day, didn't see any news on this. However, a week before, i received message indicating there's a suspicious car wondering around outside another nearby school. Really hope this is just speculation.
Second incident: Snake found in school field where the kid used to have their regular exercise class.
My boy told me 1 snake found on the field; one student said there were 3 snakes being seen in the school compound; one student said saw the snake were on the tree then later crawl to the field. So ....what is happening? No clue
On 5/23 Thursday, when i picked him up, he told me one standard one student bitten by snake !
On 5/25 Saturday, heard that the kid who bitten by the snake passed away. Checked with my boy, he said actually some students saw that kid get bitten by the snake and the others went to inform the teacher, however, the kid denied and insisted that he was bitten by the snake. And since there is no adult around there to witness the incident, so no one know the truth.
I hope that all these incidents are just rumors!
On 5/21 Tuesday, when i picked up my boy, immediately, he told me there were two incidents happened in the school on that day.
First incident : Kid get kidnapped by stranger at the back entrance of the school. Wow, this really scary though! Hope this is not true. Flipped through the newspapers on next day, didn't see any news on this. However, a week before, i received message indicating there's a suspicious car wondering around outside another nearby school. Really hope this is just speculation.
Second incident: Snake found in school field where the kid used to have their regular exercise class.
My boy told me 1 snake found on the field; one student said there were 3 snakes being seen in the school compound; one student said saw the snake were on the tree then later crawl to the field. So ....what is happening? No clue
On 5/23 Thursday, when i picked him up, he told me one standard one student bitten by snake !
On 5/25 Saturday, heard that the kid who bitten by the snake passed away. Checked with my boy, he said actually some students saw that kid get bitten by the snake and the others went to inform the teacher, however, the kid denied and insisted that he was bitten by the snake. And since there is no adult around there to witness the incident, so no one know the truth.
I hope that all these incidents are just rumors!
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
成绩放棒了!!
考试完了, 接下来就是另一个跟刺激的时刻...成绩放棒了!!!!
儿子只把考卷带回, 还没有家长老师会面日,所以,我还不晓得儿子在学校有多乖,多顽皮.儿子考试成绩还不错,但是,数学就倒,太太粗心. 问他有什么感想,他竟然说 NO FEEL.气死我了. 如果,他不会, 我还没那么气, 但是, 他是粗心....希望,在 接下来的考试里,他会较细心.
至于,女儿,家长老师会面日在5/21,但,出呼预料,她竟然考出预料不到超好的成绩!好棒!!!!! 但是, 有被老师投诉,说她在班上有时会发白日梦,有时不回答老师,有时就太多话.....希望女儿会慢慢的变乖,不要那么调皮,
儿子只把考卷带回, 还没有家长老师会面日,所以,我还不晓得儿子在学校有多乖,多顽皮.儿子考试成绩还不错,但是,数学就倒,太太粗心. 问他有什么感想,他竟然说 NO FEEL.气死我了. 如果,他不会, 我还没那么气, 但是, 他是粗心....希望,在 接下来的考试里,他会较细心.
至于,女儿,家长老师会面日在5/21,但,出呼预料,她竟然考出预料不到超好的成绩!好棒!!!!! 但是, 有被老师投诉,说她在班上有时会发白日梦,有时不回答老师,有时就太多话.....希望女儿会慢慢的变乖,不要那么调皮,
Friday, May 17, 2013
Exam week after one another
May is exam week for most school and luckily both kids' exam fall in one week apart, else we will have big hard time. However, even though the exam is one after another, it doesn't make our life perfect too.
Kaitlyn's exam is one week before Kelvin, so when Kaitlyn burning her midnight oil, instead of accompanying the sister burning midnight oil, Kelvin busy wondering around in the house and this also impacting Kaitlyn's study mood. However, we didn't push the kids too much, just let them move at their own pace.
Finally....Kaitlyn finished her exam. So with this means, Kelvin will have his exam then. So while Kelvin burning his midnight oil, Kaitlyn's turn to wondering around in the house, LOL! After Tue, Wed and Thus, finally....exam finish!!!
So, that's the end of exam fun for both kids and both me and hubb!!! Another will be by Sep/Oct. So we still have few months to breath before the next exam wave hitting us.
Kaitlyn's exam is one week before Kelvin, so when Kaitlyn burning her midnight oil, instead of accompanying the sister burning midnight oil, Kelvin busy wondering around in the house and this also impacting Kaitlyn's study mood. However, we didn't push the kids too much, just let them move at their own pace.
Finally....Kaitlyn finished her exam. So with this means, Kelvin will have his exam then. So while Kelvin burning his midnight oil, Kaitlyn's turn to wondering around in the house, LOL! After Tue, Wed and Thus, finally....exam finish!!!
So, that's the end of exam fun for both kids and both me and hubb!!! Another will be by Sep/Oct. So we still have few months to breath before the next exam wave hitting us.
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
骂孩子后的心酸反思........
好讨厌自己那无法放开,放松的态度.
孩子们竟然偷偷的繼承了我一些不好的基因:-没有坚持心 & 粗心
辛好,他们也同时偷偷的繼承了老公良好的基因:-好脾气,健忘
我的脾气不是很好,也是个很没有耐心的人,深受其害的多是我老公.接下来就是两个孩子.哈哈!
虽然,我常常讲,别 给孩子压力,让他们自由发挥,但是, 活在这现实的社会里, 有是我们会搞得自己很不理智. 常常告诉自己, 教育好自己的孩子,不要想着他/她以后会是什么家, 毕竟行行出状元嘛. 太过逼孩子们去帮自己完成自己无法达到的梦想, 对孩子们是很不公 平. 但是,自己就是放不下, 一直深怕孩子功课追不上..
一向来, 我也知道他字体不端, 但不至于很难看到无法读. 但是, 现在国民型华小老师很在意同学们的字体. 第一次与他级任老师见面,第一个评论就是字体不端, 我还很礼貌的回答老师, 叫老师多多帮忙纠正 我猜, 老师内心深处一定痛骂我. 晚上回来,我骂了他一顿,他低着头.
昨晚, 我又因为儿子字体不端而痛骂他一场. 他没哭,眼泪一直在眼里打滚,只是俩只眼睛一直看着我. 已不是第一次了, 每次都警告他,若从犯, 我会狠狠的处罚他. 但, 每次都没.
每次,骂完后,深夜,,孩子睡了,我感觉我的孩子真可怜,不懂刚刚我那么骂他, 他心里会很难受吗?我心里很难受,很难受. 有时, 我会伤心的落泪, 很懊悔, 为什么我要那么骂他. 毕竟, 他还小, 当我还是他那年龄时, 我还在迷迷糊糊的学着ABC. 有时, 我会在孩子们熟睡时在他们那可爱的小脸,亲一亲,何必在事情发生了才懊悔, 为什么不学会控制自己.? 为什么还总是抱怨孩子记不住家长和老 师的话呢? 为什么? 为什么? 为什么?
辛好,孩子们还蛮健忘, 睡醒就忘了刚被我痛骂. 几天后, 老毛病又来了. 哪我呢, 也是老毛病重犯,骂骂骂. 但,我坚持,只骂, 不打. 要打, 我也是用手打. 若,忍无可忍, 我就用手打桌子,练个铁沙掌…. 哈哈!
有时, 我在想,孩子们去上学,会不会像我们去上班那样有压力? 我们是否应该放下身段,站在他们的立场上想?其实孩子们想法很单纯,要的也不多,不像我们大人那么复杂. 为什么我不简简单单的教育他们? 无论我们怎样对待他们,他们总可以以一颗最纯净的心来对待我们, 孩子们,你们是上帝送给我的最佳礼物!!!!孩子们,希望你们可以体会到妈咪的用心良苦. 别怪我哦!
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Mummy, it's time to let go!
I have been accompanying my boy packing his school bag every night after homework and revision. Our usual activity is, he will gathered all the books for next day according to the time table, then i will do a cross check by calling out each subjects, and he will put all those books into his school bag. Both of us enjoy this "YOU and ME" time though.
After CNY break, on Tuesday night, when i wanted to repeat the same routine with him, he told me that he had pack his school bag and assured me that i don't have to check for him. Suddenly, i feel so lost as i am no longer needed in part of his schooling life. However, to make him feel confident on himself, i praised him and reminded him to make sure he didn't miss out anything that needed for the next day.
But.......i still don't feel comfortable to let him do it all by himself, not that i don't have confident on him, but to me, he is still too young to handle himself well. LOL! So, either at night after he went upstairs or early in the morning when he is still in his dreamland, i will check his school bag again, to make sure he doesn't miss out anything.
After CNY break, on Tuesday night, when i wanted to repeat the same routine with him, he told me that he had pack his school bag and assured me that i don't have to check for him. Suddenly, i feel so lost as i am no longer needed in part of his schooling life. However, to make him feel confident on himself, i praised him and reminded him to make sure he didn't miss out anything that needed for the next day.
But.......i still don't feel comfortable to let him do it all by himself, not that i don't have confident on him, but to me, he is still too young to handle himself well. LOL! So, either at night after he went upstairs or early in the morning when he is still in his dreamland, i will check his school bag again, to make sure he doesn't miss out anything.
Saturday, February 2, 2013
守得云开见月明
写了又檫, 檫了又写,忙了这么久和茫了这么久,终于有点头绪,总算守得云开见月明,看见成就. 不然的话就是陪了夫人又折兵.
大宝贝的字体总算大有进步. 竟然还获得老师的欣赏,得了A.
宝贝, 好棒喔!! 继续努力!
大宝贝的字体总算大有进步. 竟然还获得老师的欣赏,得了A.
宝贝, 好棒喔!! 继续努力!
Friday, February 1, 2013
First visit to dentist
On our way to dinner, you suddenly cried out loud in pain, saying toothache.However, we able to calm you down for a short while before another round of crying. As soon as we settle down for dinner, tears started rolling down from your eyes again, and we have no other choice besides pack our food back and at the same time rushed to the dentist outside our house.
We waited for about 30 mins and guess what....the dentist asked you few questions such as where pain, what happen etc before she started to check your teeth. And the conclusion is, the pain that you had doesn't come from your teeth, you actually accidentally bit your skin inside your mouth. However, at the same time, dentist found out that there are four tooth with holes and surprise us, you never complain any pain though.Since the holes are at the molars and according to the dentist, these milk tooth will not get changed until you are about 11~ 12 years old. So, what's next...we decided to perform dental filling for you to avoid food stuck in the holes. And now, mummy recalled that there is few occasions you complain to me that food stuck in between your teeth.
You are so brave, no tears at all. You lye down and corporate well with dentist throughout the whole process. We didn't filled up all teeth at once as dentist worry that she may caused phobia on you since it's your first visit to dentist.
Great job boy!!
We waited for about 30 mins and guess what....the dentist asked you few questions such as where pain, what happen etc before she started to check your teeth. And the conclusion is, the pain that you had doesn't come from your teeth, you actually accidentally bit your skin inside your mouth. However, at the same time, dentist found out that there are four tooth with holes and surprise us, you never complain any pain though.Since the holes are at the molars and according to the dentist, these milk tooth will not get changed until you are about 11~ 12 years old. So, what's next...we decided to perform dental filling for you to avoid food stuck in the holes. And now, mummy recalled that there is few occasions you complain to me that food stuck in between your teeth.
You are so brave, no tears at all. You lye down and corporate well with dentist throughout the whole process. We didn't filled up all teeth at once as dentist worry that she may caused phobia on you since it's your first visit to dentist.
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
一起努力的日子
一直以为, 当大宝贝上一年级, 我就会较轻松. 天啊, 原来我错了. 大宝贝上了一年级, 我比以往更忙,有时, 我还得帮他做功课 不明白呒为什么会有那么多的涂颜色活动. 感觉上大宝贝好像在上幼儿园而不是国小. 不懂大宝贝有什么感想.
不想给他太多的压力, 但是又不放心, 总爱检查他的功课. 其实, 我这大宝贝, 他蛮乖的, 功课时常在学校做完, 但是, 但是, 但是, 因为社会要求完美无缺, 老师说, 大宝贝的字体不美, 所以我每晚得叫他从写. 可怜的大宝贝, 每次我骂他因为字体不美, 他就会用那是懂非懂的眼神看着我, 搞得我心疼到半命!!!!
希望接下来, 我和大宝贝会慢慢的适应这种生活.
不想给他太多的压力, 但是又不放心, 总爱检查他的功课. 其实, 我这大宝贝, 他蛮乖的, 功课时常在学校做完, 但是, 但是, 但是, 因为社会要求完美无缺, 老师说, 大宝贝的字体不美, 所以我每晚得叫他从写. 可怜的大宝贝, 每次我骂他因为字体不美, 他就会用那是懂非懂的眼神看着我, 搞得我心疼到半命!!!!
希望接下来, 我和大宝贝会慢慢的适应这种生活.
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
My happy boy!
I am off on second half of today...why?? Because today i need to drop by my boy's school to collect RM100 that given my government. Last night i informed my boy that i will be going to his school today and this
morning before he leave for his daycare class, my boy so happy and reminded me that he said he can see me in school today. And of
course i am happy too, coz i can see him in the school.
I purposely take second half of the day off because i want to have a peaceful mind so that i can give my sweetest smile to my boy when i go to his school.
When i was queuing up, noticed that my boy so well behaved. Instead of day dreaming and look around, he took out his Chinese text book and pretend he is reading the book, LOL! Hope that he will keep this well behave behavior not only today but everyday in the school.
I purposely take second half of the day off because i want to have a peaceful mind so that i can give my sweetest smile to my boy when i go to his school.
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