Yesterday night, my girl told me she was whipped by her teacher due to she doesn't walk back to her desk per the way teacher has in her mind. She mentioned to me she did try explain to her teacher, but teacher insisted she saw it differently. So end up, she being given a love whip on her palm. (I reminded my girl many many time, if teacher want to punish you, **well, can we say no, of course we can't, ** make sure teacher doesn't hit on your hear, face or vein. )
When i heard of what happened to on my girl, i was so mad. I angry at her because she doesn't has gut to defend her own self. However, after a beauty sleep , this morning when i wake up, i told me girl, "you will get to meet many different types of people in your life, some are kind, some are not. So don't because of this particular teacher and you feel all teachers are not good. There are still many kind and good teachers who you will meet later.
We always tell our kids need to be kind, to be fair, give chance to people to do their explanation, find out the truth before we make any conclusion. However, in school, there's no room for a kid to explain why they do so, before they can open their mouth, a "sign of love" will be landed on their skin. I bet it's based on Chinese idiom "打是疼,骂是爱". **sickening!** And if i go to school to have friendly talk with the teacher, some teacher will give a "free upgrade" to the kid and the kid will become the most "favorite student" in the class, and the kid will have hard time throughout the whole year. So i just keep the frustration on my heart, and forget about it after a good night sleep.
I came across an article few days ago, and the message that i get from the article is "
No point wasting time and energy confronting someone who doesn't trust you at first place. You rather spend your time to do other more valuable thing. Life still goes on without this people in your life!"
宝贝,妈咪其实很心疼你的委屈. 但是, 你要记得, 不管你遇到任何困难, 妈咪会永远支持你.
Don't let what you can't do stop you from doing what you can do!
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